Saturday, December 29, 2018

S3 E49 Guys Midnight Naked Dancing Around A Mayan Temple

In this final episode of Season 3, I tell you the story of my first visit to Mexico in my 20's in 1985, and the hot and bizarre encounter I had with a group of partying Mexican straight young guys. This is a story I shall never forget and I want to share it with you this New Year's Eve.

Friday, December 21, 2018

S3 E48 Guys Flexing Their Muscles

In this 3rd to the last episode of Season 3, I am re-booting one of the episodes that I used to have in my back catalog that I removed due to 'panicking' about it one day. LOL (sometimes these things happen where I don't trust my own judgement!).

It begins with a short true-to-life, somewhat erotic story and then I give a detailed explanation as to how guys flex their muscles and pose and the intense preparation for a Bodybuilding Contest. This is an insider's look into a world that most people will never see. From posing trunk selection, to entire body shaving, I think you'll find this interesting (and somewhat hot!).

Thanks for listening. If you like it, please subscribe to the show. And don't forget the TWO YouTube Channels now for my personal workout life and my activities with my husband Paco.

'GymTrainerJOEY' on YouTube
'An Older Gay Guy Show' on YouTube.

Thanks guys !!!!
- Joey

Tuesday, December 11, 2018

S3 E47 Joey & Paco Get Wasted

Bonus episode! As promised, as a 'thank you' for those that have given me 100+ 5-Star Ratings on Apple Podcasts/iTunes, this is an episode that is comprised of 3 different times my husband Paco and I sat down after smoking/drinking and recorded some fun and laughs. This episode touches on the following subjects: Classes we have taken together, Sophia Petrillo's wig, How weird is it that we can 'own' animals? and Blueberry picking fail.

Plus, this episode has 2 TV/Film Trivia Questions, and these are for current/just a few years old questions for my younger listeners.

I hope you enjoy this episode. If people like it we might do a couple per season.
- Joey

Tuesday, November 20, 2018

S3 E 46 How Long Is Thanksgiving Day ?

My infamous annual episode about how to survive, and thrive, during Thanksgiving and the approaching Holiday Season. (This is from my 'Beginner Diet and Fitness Show' Podcast)

I hope you enjoy !

Happy Thanksgiving!

My best,
- Joey

Sunday, November 11, 2018

S3 E45 A Fluff Episode

An unedited extended episode where I speak about what is going on in my life (that I hope you find interesting).

I talk about:

Paco Baking
An Owl Spotting Meet-up
Our Unusual Thanksgiving Plans
Matt Damon and 'The Talented Mr. Ripley' and 'The Martian'
Changing Gyms
Our New Business
The Halloween Experience of 2018

Again, this is unedited because the last episode was so tightly edited that it sounded like I was hyper. This is a more relaxed conversation.

Please let me know what you think of this relaxed format. Do you like the (reasonably) edited shows, or this kind of informal conversation (with mouth sounds, which is hard to prevent and everything) ??

Thanks for listening !
- Joey

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

S3 E44 College Wrestlers

**Please note: I edited this episode too tightly, resulting in me speaking very fast. Sorry! **
For all lovers of my true-to-life erotic stories, I think this will be one that you really like! For anyone who does not like this type of content, other subjects will be coming in the next episodes.

For one season in the early 1980's, I was asked by a University in Boston to film some of the wrestler's practices and competition matches. This is the story.

For anyone not familiar with wrestling, I review the uniform and one of the most controversial, and in some levels, a banned wrestling move called 'The Oil Check' (or 'The Butt Drag').

I hope you enjoy this episode.
Thanks guys!
- Joey

Friday, October 12, 2018

S3 E43 Phantom Spit

A busy episode where I talk about reaching my goal of 100 5-star ratings, the result of The Podcast Awards and give details and some funny moments of our trip to New York City as a celebration of my husband Paco's birthday weekend.

(the promised episode about College Wrestlers will be next week).

Thursday, October 4, 2018

S3 E42 Thwapping My Nuts

An upcoming birthday celebration for Paco in New York City brings memories of my very first trip to NYC with some buddies where we played 'Thwap My Nuts' during the long drive.

Be sure to check out the latest video on 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel about 'My Red Carpet and The 2018 Podcast Awards' for a humorous look this year's Award Ceremony.

Tuesday, September 25, 2018

S3 E41 The Latest in Cosmetic Work for Guys with Kris Venezia - Part Two

This year's Sweeps Period concludes with the 2nd Part of my conversation with Kris Venezia about what is new in the areas of cosmetic work available for guys.

This is not a suggestion or endorsement for you to run out and get cosmetic work, but for many older guys, especially those who have suffered from the effects of HIV and the powerful drugs that are taken to keep it at bay, this information is important. With some, it could even be life-saving, as the depression and isolation people often feel can take its toll on the psyche.

In this second half, we discuss Cool Sculpting, Gastric Bypass and Hair Pieces (and those in Hollywood that wear them!) So sit back and enjoy this insider's look at the world of cosmetic work.

** This Sunday, September 30, 2018, is International Podcast Day and will be the announcement of the Winners of the 13th Annual People's Choice Podcast Awards. I am Nominated for 2 Podcast Awards: The LGBTQ Podcast Award and the Mature Podcast Award. Please tune-in LIVE on Sunday at 8:00 pm Eastern Time (5:00 pm Pacific Time) for the Announcement of the Winners. Go to to view the Awards LIVE. Thanks !!! **

Sunday, September 16, 2018

S3 E40 Self-Doubt vs. Confidence - Impostor Syndrome

At the request of a listener from British Columbia, Canada regarding his self-doubt as he takes a new position running a sports team, we look at two self-esteem philosophies: The Peter Principle and Impostor Syndrome. Now while these theories can be viewed as a negative source of esteem, when coupled with a more applicable and positive method of coping with self-esteem that we talk about in the second half of today's episode, we can assess our self-doubt easier when looking at this subject from various points of view. The episode concludes with a basic tenant of success that we can all apply in times of indecision and uncertainty.

A Vintage TV Trivia Question is posed at the start of the show and the answer is given in the concluding minutes of the podcast.

Thanks so much for joining me today !
- Joey

Wednesday, August 22, 2018

S3 E39 Getting Outside Yourself

This serious episode is the second half of my series on Depression that started with the episode 'Depression: Emotional Eating'. Today I tell you about the serious danger that I was in due to depression after my parent's deaths. I discuss how my depression first surfaced, plans I had made to take my own life and treatment that I sought out to deal with my issues of grief.  But most importantly, I talk about revelations I had during this process that allowed me to view the world in a different way, that ultimately has brought me to the better place I am in these last 20 years or so.

This episode is my personal experiences and opinions. Do not view this as any kind of therapy or professional guidance. If you feel you are depressed or if you ever have suicidal thoughts, please seek out professional help. I have been able to overcome my grief and relationship issues only through professional therapy and prescribed medications. This show is only my personal opinions.

Wednesday, August 15, 2018

S3 E38 The Latest in Cosmetic Work for Guys with Kris Venezia - Part One

In today's Sweeps Period episode, I think everyone will find this fascinating. Kris Venezia (from 'The Almost Transition' episode) returns to discuss all the current treatments available for guys who wish to look their best as they age.

Even if you have no interest in having Cosmetic Work done, I think you will find it very interesting.

We talk about Kris' history of Cosmetic Work, we also discuss Fillers, Laser Hair and Spot Removal, Cool Sculpting, how to tell if you might need some Hairline Restoration, and we even touch upon Melania Trump and Ivanka Trump.

This is Part One of a Two Part episode due to the length of the interview. Part Two of this show will air in three weeks. I will do two other episodes first, for those not interested in this subject.

- Joey

Sunday, August 12, 2018

S3 E37 The Blond Shaggy-Haired Surfer Boy with the Darkest Tan and the Brightest Blue Eyes

A Story Episode about my childhood summers growing up on a lake in Maine and my first boyhood crush.

Additionally, I give you some exciting news about my show, some future plans that Paco and I have and I ask you a Vintage TV Trivia Question.

Wednesday, August 8, 2018

S3 E36 The Leather Community with Jay Menick

An Interview Show with Mr. Providence Eagle 2017, Jay Menick. Jay gives us insight into the Leather Community, it's clubs, contests and history.

If you have never been a participant in this side of the Gay Community, this episode will give you some surprises. Enjoy!

Tomorrow, Thursday August 9th, I will release a NEW Story Episode called 'Blond Shaggy-Haired Surfer Boy - My First Crush' in which I tell you all about my summers on a lake up North as a tribute to my father. And....I describe my crush's body in vivid detail from the memory of a voyeuristic prepubescent (that's me!), and I also tell you of some future plans that my Husband Paco and I have made.

Look for that episode to be on the air tomorrow at 6:00 pm EDT.

Thanks !!!!
- Joey

Tuesday, August 7, 2018

S3 E35 Depression: Emotional Eating

Sweeps Period begins with this look at Emotional Eating, which is often Over-Eating, and the toll this can take on your body and mind.  If you feel you are Over-Eating or Binge-Eating, please do seek out the many resources that are there to help you.

Additionally, 2 more episodes of the Podcast will be released this week. Look for a Special Interview Show with Jay Menick, Mr. Providence Eagle 2017 on air tomorrow (Wednesday, August 8, 2018) where we discuss The Leather Community, it's past and future. If you have never participated in The Leather Community, please check out this eye-opening interview about the many facets of this gay lifestyle.

Sweeps Period continues on Thursday (August 9, 2018) with a Story Episode.

Saturday, July 28, 2018

S3 E34 Coming Out Later In Life

An exploration of the issues and obstacles that gay men face when coming out when older.

A Vintage TV Trivia question is asked at the start of the show and the answer is given at the conclusion of the podcast.

Please vote for me in the Podcast Awards! (I really want to win!)
Listen back 5 episodes to the one called 'Podcast Awards, Please Help Me' for the details of how to vote. VOTING CLOSES ON TUESDAY, JULY 31st. So please don't wait !

Thank you so very much in advance for your considerations.

Wednesday, July 25, 2018

S3 E33 Cum !

A news update, another Vintage TV Trivia Question and also a discussion about Cum (semen), including some important info for you to review with your physician. The health of your Prostate is a very important part of longevity and overall health. All this is discussed.
Plus, some shout-outs !

Please vote for me in the Podcast Awards. The short episode called 'Podcast Awards, Please Help Me!' is 4 episodes back and it gives detailed instructions on how to vote for An Older Gay Guy Show.

And, because of The Podcast Awards Sweeps-Period, there are some awesome shows coming up in August and September. Make sure you are  SUBSCRIBED so you don't miss these Must-Listen episodes !!!

Saturday, July 14, 2018

S3 E32 Relationship Honesty

This is kind of an addendum to several of previous episodes: Monogamy vs. Open Relationships / Gay Dating / Cruising / Bromance with an Ex / etc.

I'd like to hear your opinion on this episode. You can reach me at regarding this, or any subject.

Please vote for me for the 2018 PEOPLE'S CHOICE PODCAST AWARDS!
Go to, go to 'Listener Nominations Now Open', fill out the short form, them go to the Nominations page. I am nominated in 3 categories: The Adam Curry People's Choice Award, The LGBTQ Award and the Mature Award.
Please vote for me in all 3 categories. You will find An Older Gay Guy Show in the drop-down menus.
And..... THANK YOU !

Thursday, July 12, 2018

S3 E31 Black Bodybuilders in the Sauna

Just for fun, I tell you all about an encounter I had today while in the sauna. Two of the most beautiful jacked bodybuilders had my attention.

Tuesday, July 10, 2018

S3 E30 Cruising

Cruising is one of the hobbies of gay men. Some collect stamps. Some collect guys when cruising. Of course cruising can also be just simply checking out guys when in public. Wherever hot guys go, guys will cruise.

In this extended episode, I take a look at the 1980 film 'Cruising' starring Al Pacino and its effect on the gay community. Also, what would an episode be without a true-life story from me. In this episode you get one longer one and a short one for your entertainment.

I hope you enjoy the episode!

Please consider voting for me for the 2018 Podcast Awards. Go to and vote for me in 3 categories: The Adam Curry People's Choice Award, The LGBTQ Award and The Mature Award. I am in each category in the drop-down menu. Thank you for your vote !!!!

Monday, June 25, 2018

S3 E29 Monogamy vs. Open Relationships - Part 1

This is the 1st of 2 parts on a discussion about whether Monogamy is right for your relationship, or if you both prefer an Open Relationship.
A listener has shared his story with me and allowed me to share it with you. I also reference an article called, 'Open Relationships or Monogamy: How Gay Couples Can Decide What's Right For Them'.

If you have a life story to tell that you feel will be beneficial to this conversation, please feel free to send it to me at:
I would only use your first initial if I read the email in a broadcast.

Part 2 will be in a few weeks. Next week, there will be a different topic for the episode.

Tuesday, June 19, 2018

S3 E28 Upcoming LIVE SHOW and LGBT Senior/Elder Resources

I'm totally excited about my first LIVE SHOW on the Gay Network!  This Sunday, June 24th, 2018 at 6:00 pm Eastern Daylight Time. has the player button that you use to connect to the LIVE Event, and also has a chat icon (just above on the right, it is orange), where you can enter and chat with me LIVE during the hour-long show. The topic will be: Monogamy vs. Open Relationships, as well as anything else the people in the chat room want to ask or discuss!
You can also hear the show (but obviously can't come in the chat room) on Tune-In Radio.

PLEASE consider joining me for the LIVE Show, I would love to have a chance to chat with you LIVE.

Also, in this episode, I talk about some LGBT Seniors/Elders On-Line Resources and give a call-to-action to my listeners under the age of 50!

Shout-Outs and a Vintage TV Trivia Question are at the end of the podcast.

Links discussed in the show: - Advocacy, Education, Healthy Living - National Resource Center on LGBT Aging - 1-1 chat and chat room

Tuesday, June 5, 2018

S3 E27 The Life Of A Gay Personal Trainer - Part 2

The final episode about my interesting life as a gay Personal Trainer. In Part 1, I talked about how I became a Trainer and my experiences training in the various Boston gyms. In this episode I tell you about building my own gym in the basement of my house and what is is like to train gay guys in this private setting and I tell you about 3 guys who turned into more than training clients. This is the juicy stuff.

Thursday, May 24, 2018

S3 E26 Can You Have A Bromance With An Ex ?

Can gay men have a friendship/bromance with an ex easier than a straight couple? Are you friends with any of your exes? I examine an article by author Jeremy Helligar as a prequel to the episode coming up titled 'Monogamy vs. Open Relationships'.

Don't miss the 'Golden Girls' Trivia Questions at the end of the podcast!

There is a new video on 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel that shows my first (and maybe last?) experience with Waxing My Nose Hair! The video also contains a workout segment and a talk about my frustrations of an aging body. (for Feet Lovers, the last segment has me barefoot with my feet closest to the camera!)

Tuesday, May 15, 2018

S3 E25 Prince Harry / Ancestry DNA Results / Long-Term Project for my 60's

A chock-full episode. Prince Harry gets married this weekend so I have to say good-bye to a fantasy, my Ancestry DNA results are in with some surprises, and I have decided on a long-term project for when I turn 60 next month !

My thanks to all who reached out to me during the last few weeks when my beloved sister passed. I am very glad to be back doing shows !

Please be sure to check out the 'Jockstrap Stories' Podcast for my gay erotic fiction, and also 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel for new video content !

Thanks everyone !

Friday, April 27, 2018

S3 E24 Fire-Crotch and Donkey-Dong

I had another 'Close Encounter of the Sauna Kind' today and just wanted to share this thought-provoking (LOL) and guy-junk-stirring story with you.

Friday, April 13, 2018

S3 E23 Strangers Without Candy

A continuation of a topic I started in the most recent 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube video, titled 'Getting Over My Social Anxiety'.

Do I fit into one of the 3 major categories of those who talk to strangers?? Can I be a 4th category?

I humorous look at the pitfalls of not having social anxiety anymore.

Thursday, April 5, 2018

S3 E22 The 'Jockstrap Stories' Podcast Has Launched

Welcome! This is a short introduction to the new 'Jockstrap Stories' Podcast.
Please Note: This new Podcast is GAY EROTIC FICTION. 18+ only, please.

Serialized Stories from 'An Older Gay Guy Show' Podcast.

2018: Serial Reading of: 'NORTHRIDGE HIGH FOOTBALL CAMP' 
- a gay erotic sports fiction book.

2019: Serial Reading of: 'THE GUYS OF NORTHRIDGE' 

- a gay erotic sports fiction book.
(the Sequel to 'Northridge High Football Camp' )

Friday, March 30, 2018

S3 E21 The Life Of A Gay Personal Trainer - Part 1

I have lived a very interesting life as an out and proud Gay Personal Trainer. Along my 33 years (and counting) career I have encountered just about every possible kind of person and situation. In this first part of a two part series, I talk about how I started out and became a Personal Trainer that was known to be gay. I have worked at many gyms and fitness clubs over the years and my choices of my lifestyle created the life I truly wanted.

In part two (next week) I will talk about when I built my own gym downstairs in my house to train clients and started going to people's houses for training sessions. Working exclusively on my own created some very humorous and erotic situations. After listening to this first part, make SURE you DON'T MISS part two, it will make you laugh and shock you with some of the intentions of my clients. (all names changed to protect the innocent.....and guilty!)

Thursday, March 29, 2018

S3 E20 Random Thoughts - DNA

The first in a 'Random Thoughts' episode that discusses some of the crazy and unusual thoughts that infect my mind from time-to-time. In this show, I talk about a truly personal and intimate Valentine's Day gift I received.
Also, an update on the YouTube Channels that are growing.

Tuesday, March 20, 2018

S3 E19 3 Guys, 1 Tent

Who knew getting bare-assed while camping could be so much fun?!
In this episode, I update you on a few things, and then I get into the awesome tale of when I went camping with 2 buddies. It's a good story, so if you like my Jockstrap will like this!

Thursday, March 8, 2018

S3 E18 Nothing In The Dark

WARNING: If you are SENSITIVE regarding the topic of DEATH, or have had a particular trauma with the death of a loved one, PLEASE SKIP THIS EPISODE. Humor regarding death is within this show. But if you are curious about the Universe and are not bothered by discussing death in detail, please enjoy this trippy, intense, thought-provoking episode about the unknown. This is THE MOST BIZARRE episode I have ever done. Strap yourself down, get a glass of your favorite imbibement and go on this ethereal journey with me. It will be one that will make you laugh and send chills down your spine. Come on board!

Friday, March 2, 2018

S3 E17 Yeah, But Will My Dick Fall Off?

A look at the new CDC guidelines for safe sex. I announce the start of the 'Jockstrap Stories' podcast for my erotic/horror fiction.

Friday, February 16, 2018

S3 E16 The Hot Latino Identical Twins

In this episode, I give you some awesome news about my upcoming serialized books, plus, I ran into my own hot jock story today at the gym!

Friday, February 2, 2018

S3 E15 My Most Brilliant Idea

I'm excited to tell you all about an AWESOME idea that I have for this podcast going forward, and I need to know what you think of this.

Also, please check out my short (8 minute) vlogging video of my trip to Mexico to see Paco's family and friends (they would insist I call them MY family and friends!). It has some amazing panoramic views! Look for 'An Older Gay Guy Show' on YouTube.

Wednesday, January 17, 2018

S3 E14 Jockstrap Stories - "After Football" - Part 2

NOT FOR EVERYONE!  This is the much requested second-part of the erotic Jockstrap Story "After Football". This is a continuation of Part 1 that was in Season 3, Episode 9. There is vulgar language and extreme locker room talk. If any of that offends you, please listen to one of the more serious episodes of this podcast. WARNING!

Wednesday, January 10, 2018

S3 E13 Naked Martial Arts

This first episode of 2018 I tell you the funny and hot story of when I was in a Taekwondo Competition in Connecticut when I was in my 20's. This is just another example of the 'interesting' situations I get myself into. LOL. I hope you enjoy!