Starting out my 2022 Sweeps Period, this is a re-edited episode that is my absolute favorite from An Older Gay Guy Show. This took place in the early 1980's while I was working as a Funeral Director & Embalmer on Cape Cod. It is the most memorable and unique experience that I ever had in the Funeral industry. It is a story that I shall never forget, and I hope you get a laugh and that it touches your heart, as it did mine.
Tuesday, August 9, 2022
Saturday, August 6, 2022
This is a new segment that I am going to do every now and then. The news has such negative, depressing stories that sometimes I think we just need a break from it. Therefore this series will be uplifting stories with a slant towards tales with older adults. I hope that they give you the same warm feeling that they have given to me as I prepared this episode. Thank you so much for joining me today.
This Sunday will be the reveal of the Finalist Slate for the 2022 Podcast Awards. Thank you to all who enjoyed the show enough this past year and took the time to vote for me. It really means more than I could explain in words.
Sweeps Period 2022 will begin next week and air through the middle of September.
Friday, July 29, 2022
LAST 2 DAYS TO VOTE for An Older Gay Guy Show for the 2022 People's Choice Podcast Awards !
In today's episode I want to kick around some thoughts of how older gay people can find ways to socialize. Many of us senior LGBTQ+ people miss the gay bars and dance clubs where we could meet with our friends, and maybe meet that 'special' someone.
If I make the Finals for this year's Podcast Awards, I have quite a line-up of episodes for you during my 'Sweeps Period', so make sure to vote so my Sweeps will be successful.
If you enjoy this Podcast, please support me and VOTE for 'An Older Gay Guy Show' in the 2022 17th Annual People's Choice Podcast Awards:
Monday, July 4, 2022
This is a STORYTIME episode about an experience that I had in High School. I hope you find this story funny, as it is yet another example of the fact I don't always make wise decisions.
Thursday, May 19, 2022
Today I have an hour-long INTERVIEW episode for your listening pleasure.
Joshua Senter is a Golden Globe Winner and Emmy Award-nominated writer. Josh was raised in the Ozark Mountains of Missouri where he was homeschooled on a cattle farm. He moved to LA in 1997 to pursue filmmaking and he began writing for the hit Showtime series The L Word. Soon after, he joined the international phenomenon, Desperate Housewives. In addition to many more high-profile screen credits he is also an adjunct professor of TV Writing for the School of Cinematic Arts at USC. His sophomore novel Still The Night Call was released in 2022 and was named Kirkus Reviews “Best Indie Book.”
Sunday, May 15, 2022
Well, happily I turned 64. And Paco is over his Covid-19. And I still remain negative. Yay me! LOL. In this episode I wanted to begin to introduce to you my awesome gift to myself, although it was ordered in January 2021 ! 15 months of waiting are over. I hope you enjoy this pause between the more serious episodes.
Tuesday, May 3, 2022
Today I have Part 3, which is the conclusion of the series, with Susan Bratton, the intimacy expert. And boy, today’s show is chocked full of so many helpful suggestions that we as gay men, can really utilize.
We take a deep dive into Erectile Dysfunction and Dick Pumps and Susan gives her opinions on such useful topics as Acoustic Wave Therapy, Testosterone Replacement Therapy, the Gains Wave, the Phoenix, and much more. And of course she does it with her charismatic, fun filled energy.
Monday, April 25, 2022
This episode is Part 2 of the 3-Part Series with Susan Bratton, the Intimacy Expert. In this episode we take a deep dive into open relationships and other intimacy issues.
Monday, April 18, 2022
I have quite the treat for you today. I bring you an interview with my first female guest ever, and guys, she is such a joy to have on. She is knowledgeable about so many of the issues I have addressed on this show over the years, but not only does she know her stuff, she is also funny, entertaining and sexy as all hell. I adore her.
Today is part 1 of a 3-part series with the amazing Susan Bratton, an Intimacy Expert. During this series we will talk about many types of relationships, the male sexual experience, penis enlargement and health, tips on having a successful dating life and so much more.
Whether you enter Susan’s world through a sexual health problem you need to solve, intimacy skills you want to learn, or bedroom communication techniques to ignite your connection and pleasure, she offers a world of good to apply to your love life.
Monday, April 11, 2022
In this concluding episode of the 3-part series, actor, author and musical creator David Pevsner discusses his time as a Mature Escort and tells us about his OnlyFans and how he uses it as an expression of his erotic images.
Thursday, March 31, 2022
Monday, March 21, 2022
Today we start a new 3-part series with actor/author David Pevsner. Over the course of these 3 shows, David discusses his book 'Damn Shame', and talks in depth and quite honestly, about his amazing life. If you are in our age range (60's) this first episode will be a re-visit to your childhood. As the series goes along, David gets very candid about his struggles and successes in theater and his unique ways of making money during tough times. This is a fascinating series of episodes.
Friday, March 18, 2022
Wednesday, February 16, 2022
Friday, February 11, 2022
In this episode I tell you a STORYTIME about an adventure that I had with some High School friends that ended up boosting my self-esteem and confidence. Sometimes a bit scary, sometimes a bit funny, this is one of my favorite memories from my High School years. I hope you enjoy it.
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Thursday, January 27, 2022
This episode concludes the Gay Military Life series by Sgt. Ron. I want to thank Ron so very much for sharing his fascinating life with us, both in this series, as well as his Gay Prison Guard stories.
If you have not had a chance to hear the Gay Prison Guard series, I invite you to listen to Ron's tales of the many years he worked in a penitentiary as a Prison Officer. The series is available in my back catalogue.
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Monday, November 29, 2021
Sgt. Ron's tales about his time in the military and living as a closeted gay man continue, picking up where Part 6 left off. If you have not had a chance the hear Part 6, please do so first, as this episode picks up from mid-story.
The Gay Military Series concludes with Part 8 coming in just a couple of weeks.
Friday, October 22, 2021
Another common hospital test is detailed in my story of my procedure earlier this week. I know many people who have claustrophobia and fear of tight spaces might be hesitant to get this test, so as in my Colonoscopy episodes, I want to dispel some of the anxiety about MRIs.
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Wednesday, October 6, 2021
Wednesday, September 29, 2021
In the conclusion of this two-part series, Artie talks about some of his tv show appearances on General Hospital, Modern Family, Pushing Daisies and more, and we continue our discussion about his Bad Boy YouTube series. This is a fun and funny episode and I know you will enjoy it.
Podcast Awards: The 2021 People's Choice Podcast Awards will be telecast on Thursday, September 30th, International Podcast Day. The show will be on YouTube at 9:00 pm East Coast time and 6:00 pm West Coast time. An Older Gay Guy Show is nominated in the LGBTQ category. If you are available, please give it a watch. We need as many viewers as possible. The LGBTQ category will probably be 20-30 minutes into the show. Wish me luck ! My huge gratitude to all who voted for me this year.
Link to Podcast Awards: https://www.podcastawards.com/
Artie O'Daly and Co. (Bad Boy series) https://www.youtube.com/c/ArtieODalyCo
Saturday, September 18, 2021
Continuing Sweeps Period, today I have a fun-filled episode about a subculture of the gay community that I have not discussed on the show before: Drag performers. And in this special episode my guest takes the discussion to new heights, by introducing his creation; Maxxie La Wow, the World's first Drag Super-Shero.
This is a funny and educational episode about a topic that I freely admit to know nothing about.
The following are the links to the IndieGoGo Fundraising Page, the Adventure Reel that will give you a first look at Maxxie La Wow and also Anthony's social media.
The Indiegogo link:
The Adventure Reel:
Saturday, September 11, 2021
A brief overview of the primary diseases that we face as the LGBTQ+ community. Citing 3 highly regarded organizations, some basic warnings and suggestions are mentioned in this shorter episode.
Tuesday, August 31, 2021
In this full episode, I am continuing the I See Dead People series. In today's show, I tell 4 bizarre and humorous stories about my time as a Licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer:
The Potomac River Crash
In addition, I answer some common questions about the Funeral Business and I put to rest a couple of long-believed Old Wives Tales.
I hope you enjoy these stories. A Part 4 will conclude this series with the most horror I encountered as a Funeral Worker, coming in November.
Tuesday, August 24, 2021
Saturday, August 21, 2021
In Part 2 of the ongoing 'Your Personal Trainer' series, I review your 'homework' from Part 1 and then we talk intensely about one food we need to eliminate, one food group we need to expand, and the beginning of exercise via a YouTube channel that is excellent (with a HOT AF host).
The following link is to BarbarianBody's 5-minute home abdominal workout: (it may be clickable or you may have to copy and paste)
Saturday, August 14, 2021
Sweeps Period has begun! In this first episode, I have an awesome interview with a very busy Hollywood actor/writer/producer/director/editor. His name is Artie O'Daly and there is a good chance he has guest appeared on a tv show that you have seen. In this first of a two-part interview, Artie and I talk about his connection to Gilmore Girls (one of my all-time favorite shows) and he tells stories of his appearance on that show and how it came about that one of the Gilmore Girls stars appeared on Artie's hit TV series 'Bad Boy' (currently on YouTube). He is a fascinating guy and I know you will enjoy this two-part interview.
Next up in Sweeps Period will be the second part of my 'Your Personal Trainer' series. We will talk more about food and also some basic exercises to get started with at home. Following that, will be another series of episodes with Sgt. Ron where he tells us more stories of his days as a gay man in the military.
Sweeps Period is going to have some great shows. Subscribe so you don't miss an episode when it comes out. Thanks guys ! ~Joey
Friday, July 23, 2021
I thought I'd give you a story of how my day went for my 2nd colonoscopy, the first I've had since 2009.
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Please join me this Saturday, July 24th at 11:00 am - 12 noon (Eastern U.S. time) for the launch of the Joey After Dark Podcast that will be part of the INTERACTIVE Pride48 LIVE Streaming Weekend. You can enjoy a couple of true-life erotic stories, some Vintage TV Trivia, and more.
Go to Pride48.com and click on the Listen Live Player. Also, please join the chat room so we can converse during the show. Thanks everyone!
Friday, July 9, 2021
In today's episode, I am going to update you on several things.
The New Joey After Dark Podcast and Joey After Dark YouTube Channel
Also, my Eye Health, my Tongue Cancer check-up, the Pride48 Network LIVE Streaming Weekend and The Podcast Awards. Then in STORYTIME, I tell you a fun story about a real castle in my hometown.
Sunday, June 13, 2021
Friday, May 21, 2021
I am joined by LGBTQ+ Actor, Writer, Producer, Director Jonathan Shuffield, creator of the web series Almost....Not Quite: Together Apart. Originally a planned filmed sitcom-style show, in their freshman year, Jonathan and his talented troupe of actors have adapted their show for the modern pandemic. Covid-19's big connection software has allowed the production to use Zoom as their set, and the result is a fun testament of the unforgettable year of 2020. Please enjoy the interview.
Saturday, May 8, 2021
This episode is the final installment of my 'Life-Enhancing Habits' series. This episode covers the remaining 7 suggestions to help you live a longer and more vibrant life.
Don't miss my BIG announcement coming in a short message episode on Tuesday, June 1st !
Saturday, May 1, 2021
Saturday, April 24, 2021
As we slowly start putting society back together as we all get vaccinated for Covid-19, the Senior Gay Community is something we all need to think about and work at sustaining. Many older gay men have been isolated during these past 13 months and are now rightfully feeling hesitant about re-joining social situations where crowds might soon be gathering. How will our older LGBTQ brothers and sisters still get together for much needed friendships and reunions, and what will be the lasting community be like?
Friday, April 16, 2021
We all are getting older, and maybe we are becoming our parents in our thoughts and habits. Are we as Gay Seniors just tired of the world of younger people? Are we starting to say the very things our parents would say that we swore we would never become? Are we starting to border on being that grouchy, bitter old man?
Sunday, April 11, 2021
Today I am starting a new series that I'm calling Your Personal Trainer. I often hear from guys that have basic workout and nutrition questions. I know hiring a Personal Trainer can be an expensive proposition, especially with the fees that will probably have to be charged by Trainers to compensate for all the lost work and income due to the Covid-19 Pandemic.
So, with that in mind, I thought running this series can be beneficial to those that wish they could have a Personal Trainer to give them basic information and to do what Trainers do best; Motivate and Encourage you, as you go along. Obviously without having the option to work with you in person, it will limit how some of this training will have to be. But, I have faith that the information and me kicking your ass a bit will help you at least get started eating healthier and getting you to move! I will give you some basic at home exercises to do down the road a bit, and there will also be more advanced exercises that will have to be done in a gym, for those of you desiring these programs.
So, no matter your experience, from absolute beginners (my favorite guys!) to the more advanced training, there will be something for everyone. I truly hope you enjoy these episodes and that you will participate so we all can get these Pandemic Pounds off so we can enjoy a beautiful, active Summer. My best to all of you! ~Joey
Saturday, March 27, 2021
Monday, March 22, 2021
This is part 1 of a 2-part series on 10 Habits that can help give you a heathy life as you age. In this first part, I give an overview, some necessary disclaimers and talk in depth about the first 3 Habits. The remaining 7 will be discussed in the final installment of this series, coming in a couple of weeks.
The main content of this episode is from a draft that I had back from the first year of this show. It was never used. Due to it being done 6 years ago, the audio is not the best as I was working with my first microphone and studio set-up. I currently use my 3rd set-up for recording new episodes so there are big differences.
Thank you for listening !
Friday, March 12, 2021
In this Interview episode, I am joined by Actor/Writer/Producer Gian Carlo Durland, Independent Filmmaker. Gian Carlo currently has two film projects of interest to the older LGBTQ+ community. Please enjoy this lively discussion about his excellent film Ripples of Water, the difficulties of being over 40 in the gay community and Clutter Luck, his YouTube episodic 'Roadshow' parody.
Friday, March 5, 2021
This is Part 1 of a fun conversation that I had with Matt Mercurio, an ex-client and best friend of mine from 25 years ago. Matt was one of the first clients that I had when I moved my training business into Boston gay gyms.
Saturday, February 27, 2021
Friday, February 19, 2021
Sometimes when we get older, especially if we are single and alone, we ruminate on past embarrassing situations or errors that we have made. I wanted to explain my philosophy on how I look at past problems. I talk about how I grew up with a dying mother and how that shaped my life over all these years. I hope this might be some use to you.
Friday, February 12, 2021
Saturday, December 26, 2020
In the conclusion of our 5-Part Series on Sgt. Ron's Gay Military Life Stories, he concludes with some intriguing tales of how far the U.S. Military used to go to 'weed out' any suspected (gasp!) HOMOSEXUALS ! He also tells us stories about Turkish Baths (saunas) and his encounters with other foreign soldiers.
Wednesday, December 9, 2020
In Part 4 of our 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues his amazing story-telling and discusses his time in Turkey. This is a funny and fascinating tale, giving us insight into what it was like as a gay man in the Military in the 1980's and 1990's.
Friday, November 6, 2020
In Part 3 of a 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues to tell us his tales of gay life in the United States Air Force. In this episode, Sgt. Ron tells us of his life during his assignments in The Netherlands and Turkey.
Monday, November 2, 2020
LGBTQ author Ste7en (yes, the 7 is on purpose) joins me to discuss his brand-new memoir The Last Alias, a book discussing his very successful career as an Anime director, writer and producer. We talk about his cult-hit Ghost Stories and how that influenced his life. The Last Alias also dives into his previous 'straight' life and his discovery of multiple aspects of his personality that allowed Ste7en to live as his authentic self.
Thursday, October 29, 2020
Saturday, September 19, 2020
Wednesday, September 9, 2020
Tuesday, September 1, 2020
One of the dangers of getting old is the possibility of losing friends and family and isolating yourself in desperation to try to avoid pain. This can deprive you of some wonderful years of your life. Others find the endless search for a life partner to be depressing and debilitating. It seems that no matter what you do, you find yourself alone. And being alone for any length of time, no matter who you are, will eventually lead to loneliness. Loneliness can be crippling.
Sunday, August 23, 2020
Tuesday, August 18, 2020
A brief discussion of a common ailment in older men, one that is generally benign, but is often so embarrassing that guys sometimes withdraw from having sex altogether.
Friday, August 14, 2020
In Part 2 of my 'I See Dead People' series, I thought it would be a good idea to tell you about what exactly happens when a body is embalmed. As we age, we will encounter the need to make arrangements for funerals, as well as visit them as a friend or relative. Should it fall on you to make the funeral arrangements, do you know what a loved one would really like for their final disposition? If you have no guidance by written wishes, you will need to make decisions that are difficult within a set amount of time to get all the arrangements in place. Embalm or Cremation? What does each really mean?
Saturday, August 1, 2020
Thursday, July 30, 2020
Sunday, July 19, 2020
Saturday, July 11, 2020
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Thursday, June 25, 2020
Saturday, May 30, 2020
The Randy Report was recently named one of the Top 13 LGBTQ+ Blogs You Need To Follow by PRNewswire and it has been recognized as a Top 50 LGBT Blog by Feedspot.com
In this enjoyable conversation, Randy tells us about how The Randy Report came to be, and the many aspects that keep the Blog and Podcast at the forefront of LGBTQ news.
Thursday, May 21, 2020
Sunday, March 22, 2020
Wednesday, March 4, 2020
Thursday, February 20, 2020
Thursday, February 13, 2020
Jason is an award-winning writer, actor, producer and director and you don't want to miss this awesome conversation we had about filmmaking.
Jason's films in release include:
Additionally, he is the author of the 'California Comedy' series of LGBTQ romance novellas:
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Sunday, December 29, 2019
Thursday, December 12, 2019
Thursday, November 28, 2019
Thursday, October 31, 2019
Monday, September 2, 2019
Thursday, August 29, 2019
Saturday, August 10, 2019
Thursday, July 18, 2019
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Wednesday, June 19, 2019
** Please don't miss my LIVE Show this Saturday, June 22, 2019. There will be fun Vintage and Current TV Trivia where you can answer in a real-time Chat Room and the Main Topic will be 'Masturbation", Choking the Chicken, Beating Off, Spanking the Monkey, Fapping. We will discuss why you should masturbate and interesting listener stories of their masturbation. It will be loads of fun. (you can masturbate during the show LOL). Please join me LIVE from 3:00 pm- 4:00 pm Eastern US time. (12:00-1:00 pm West Coast). Tomorrow June 20, 2019 I will have a short (5 minutes or so) podcast telling you how to come to Pride48.com and join the FUN !!! See you then !!!!! **
Thursday, April 25, 2019
If you were a fan of the 1990's British TV Show 'Ab/Fab' (Absolutely Fabulous), don't miss my pathetic impression of Edina!
Tuesday, April 9, 2019
Monday, March 4, 2019
Thursday, January 31, 2019
Saturday, January 26, 2019
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Tuesday, November 20, 2018
Friday, October 12, 2018
Tuesday, September 25, 2018
Sunday, September 16, 2018
Wednesday, August 22, 2018
Wednesday, August 15, 2018
Wednesday, August 8, 2018
Tuesday, August 7, 2018
Saturday, July 28, 2018
Saturday, July 14, 2018
Monday, June 25, 2018
Tuesday, June 5, 2018
Thursday, May 24, 2018
Don't miss the 'Golden Girls' Trivia Questions at the end of the podcast!
There is a new video on 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel that shows my first (and maybe last?) experience with Waxing My Nose Hair! The video also contains a workout segment and a talk about my frustrations of an aging body. (for Feet Lovers, the last segment has me barefoot with my feet closest to the camera!)
Friday, April 13, 2018
Do I fit into one of the 3 major categories of those who talk to strangers?? Can I be a 4th category?
I humorous look at the pitfalls of not having social anxiety anymore.
Friday, March 30, 2018
In part two (next week) I will talk about when I built my own gym downstairs in my house to train clients and started going to people's houses for training sessions. Working exclusively on my own created some very humorous and erotic situations. After listening to this first part, make SURE you DON'T MISS part two, it will make you laugh and shock you with some of the intentions of my clients. (all names changed to protect the innocent.....and guilty!)
Thursday, March 29, 2018
Also, an update on the YouTube Channels that are growing.
Thursday, March 8, 2018
Wednesday, December 20, 2017
I also give the answers to last week's Trivia Questions and I give some long overdue shout-outs.
Look for my year-end episode next week.
My best wishes to all of you around the globe, as you celebrate your own holidays.
Saturday, December 16, 2017
One rule: NO LOOKING UP ANSWERS! Anyone can Google the answers, but what fun is that? See if you can answer the questions on your own just from your memory of episodes of these AWESOME Vintage TV Shows !