Here is a very short episode featuring my piano arrangement of 'Silent Night'. Enjoy the rest of your Holiday.
An Older Gay Guy Show
This is an LGBT Podcast aimed toward 40+ guys or anyone who enjoys a show that discusses older gay life and interests. The best is yet to come! We are the largest growing segment of gay individuals, so let's keep our community vibrant! Please join host Joey Hernandez as we talk and laugh about the trials and tribulations of growing older, sex, health, fitness, tv and films, personal stories and many other topics. PLAYERS FOR EACH EPISODE WILL APPEAR AFTER 10 SECONDS
Sunday, December 25, 2022
Saturday, December 24, 2022
Where I Have Been
This is just a quick update on why I haven't put out any new shows for the past 3 weeks.
Tomorrow, Christmas Day, I will put out two episodes. The first will just be a piano piece and the second will be a re-edited Christmas STORYTIME episode.
Sunday, December 4, 2022
STORYTIME - Don't Let Your Balls Touch Mine
Happy Holidays everyone! I hope you are all doing well. In today's episode, I bring you a newly re-edited story from my old shows. This is a story about a very fun and unusual New Year's Eve that I had when I was 29 years old. It is a tale of five of us guys that went up to a Winter chalet for partying and sports (mostly partying). I used one small part of this true-life story in my gay erotic sports novel 'Northridge High Football Camp' that I did as an audiobook on the Jockstrap Stories podcast.
Please note: I will be alone at home this Christmas and I am trying to set up something as an online social on Christmas Day itself, for anyone who might be alone and wanting some company. I will let you know more details as they firm up.
Tuesday, November 22, 2022
I See Dead People - Part 4 - Q&A and STORYTIME
In this conclusion to my 'I See Dead People' series, I answer questions that have been submitted to me from listeners. Additionally, I tell a STORYTIME story about the most difficult, gross, and heart-breaking thing I ever had to do in the funeral business. I give a warning prior to starting this story, as it is not for the faint-of-heart.
Sunday, November 6, 2022
For Your Entertainment
This will be a shorter episode and it is for your entertainment. I hope. This is going to be a few pieces of music that I have been working on writing the arrangements and I have recorded these songs from various groups.
The first is a rendition of Hallelujah by Leonard Cohen, and this is my own arrangement performed by a choir.
The second is an arrangement for the harp, played by me, and it is When You Wish Upon A Star from Disney.
The third is a rendition of Scat Singing, a jazz method and this is a well-known tv theme song that I’m sure you will recognize. This is done by a small group.
The 4th is a new arrangement I am working on of When I Was Seventeen, played by me on my baby grand piano.
And the last piece is a version of Empty Chairs at Empty Tables, from Les Mis, performed by me again, on my baby grand.
Please listen to the end of this show, as it is quite important.
So please, relax, have a glass wine or other beverage of your choice, and I hope you enjoy it.
Thursday, November 3, 2022
Gay Health 7 - Body Image
A discussion about the history of Body Image. From the 1970's through today, Body Image has been something that male and female, gay and straight have often dealt with through bombardment from TV, Films, Magazines, Porn and other media. I also address my own personal struggles with this.
Thursday, October 27, 2022
GYM STORIES 1 - Was I Being Hit on in the Sauna by an Adonis ??
Today I had the most interesting experience in the gym's sauna. I ask you to give me your opinion if I was in fact being hit on by this ADONIS. It's quite an erotic story, and if you like my gay erotic stories, you will love this.
Please send me your opinion answer to the question I ask towards the end of the episode. Send to:
AnOlderGayGuyShow@gmail.com
Saturday, October 15, 2022
STORYTIME - Midnight Skinny-Dipping
This episode is def rated R. I tell a story about my time on Cape Cod as a Funeral Director and Embalmer when I was hanging out with the young 'townies'. We had a special pond.
Saturday, October 1, 2022
Gym Showers
This is a re-edited episode of my most popular show with new content added. I hope you enjoy this conversation about Gym Showers and how they have changed over the years, as guys grew more modest.
Don't miss the STORYTIME in the middle of this episode. It is one of my favorite stories and telling it brought back so many wonderful memories. Be sure to hear it !
The show concludes with my updated thoughts about locker rooms and showers.
Sunday, September 25, 2022
INTERVIEW - Producer & Director of Himeros.tv - Davey Wavey - Gay Porn - Part 2
I am pleased to present the conclusion of the 2-part Interview with Davey Wavey. In this episode we continue to talk about our thoughts on Gay Porn, and Davey tells us all about his porn company, Himeros.tv
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Sunday, September 18, 2022
INTERVIEW - YouTube Star Davey Wavey - Gay Porn - Part 1
A great Interview with YouTube Star and Gay Porn Producer & Director, Davey Wavey. This is a return visit with us from Davey, and in this Interview he and I discuss many topics related to Gay Porn production. In this extensive Two-Part Interview, we talk about our personal likes and dislikes in Gay Porn. He also gives us details about his very hot Gay Porn site, Himeros.tv. I know you will enjoy this fascinating discussion with Davey Wavey.
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Thursday, September 8, 2022
Changes In Sleep Habits As We Age
2022 Sweeps Period continues with an episode about sleep...or lack thereof. Most Americans do not get enough sleep and it is affecting health, both physical and mental. In reference to a magazine article I read a few years ago, I used the suggestions I mention in this episode as a way to successfully change my sleep habits by 80%. I hope you enjoy the information in this show. Thank you for joining me.
The 2022 Sweeps Period has several episodes to go, so it will run into early October.
Friday, September 2, 2022
Your Personal Trainer - Part 3 - Emotional Eating
In this show, I want to continue the 'Your Personal Trainer' series with an episode about overeating and specifically, when we eat because of emotions; whether that is depression, celebration, or even boredom.
Please note: If you feel you overeat regularly, it will eventually begin to affect your overall health. So please, consult a professional that deals with overeating and binging.
Coming up next in the 'Your Personal Trainer' series will be 'Sauna for Longevity'. Look for that episode in late October.
Tuesday, August 23, 2022
Gay-to-Gay Bullying
A theme I have done before, but it deserves more attention. With many believing there exists a fracture in the Gay Community due to lack of physical socializing because so many bars and clubs have closed, it becomes more important that we watch out for each other. That includes the prevailing gay-to-gay bullying that has only increased with the advent of the internet. Let's pause for a few minutes to understand how this type of behavior is more prominent when we are with our friends and within our own cliques. Can we stop behaviors that prey on weaker people within the community when we might think we are being funny and clever?
Monday, August 15, 2022
STORYTIME - Bewitched - The Salem Saga
This is from the very first episode of An Older Gay Guy Show. I tell the story of my solo trip as an 11-year old to Salem, Massachusetts to visit what I had seen on Bewitched.
Tuesday, August 9, 2022
My Favorite Episode - STORYTIME - 'The Personification of Chin-Chin'
Starting out my 2022 Sweeps Period, this is a re-edited episode that is my absolute favorite from An Older Gay Guy Show. This took place in the early 1980's while I was working as a Funeral Director & Embalmer on Cape Cod. It is the most memorable and unique experience that I ever had in the Funeral industry. It is a story that I shall never forget, and I hope you get a laugh and that it touches your heart, as it did mine.
Saturday, August 6, 2022
Stories That Touch the Heart 1
This is a new segment that I am going to do every now and then. The news has such negative, depressing stories that sometimes I think we just need a break from it. Therefore this series will be uplifting stories with a slant towards tales with older adults. I hope that they give you the same warm feeling that they have given to me as I prepared this episode. Thank you so much for joining me today.
This Sunday will be the reveal of the Finalist Slate for the 2022 Podcast Awards. Thank you to all who enjoyed the show enough this past year and took the time to vote for me. It really means more than I could explain in words.
Sweeps Period 2022 will begin next week and air through the middle of September.
Friday, July 29, 2022
How Do We Create New LGBTQ+ Social Spaces ?
LAST 2 DAYS TO VOTE for An Older Gay Guy Show for the 2022 People's Choice Podcast Awards !
In today's episode I want to kick around some thoughts of how older gay people can find ways to socialize. Many of us senior LGBTQ+ people miss the gay bars and dance clubs where we could meet with our friends, and maybe meet that 'special' someone.
If I make the Finals for this year's Podcast Awards, I have quite a line-up of episodes for you during my 'Sweeps Period', so make sure to vote so my Sweeps will be successful.
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Monday, July 4, 2022
STORYTIME - The Itchy Drive-In
This is a STORYTIME episode about an experience that I had in High School. I hope you find this story funny, as it is yet another example of the fact I don't always make wise decisions.
Thursday, May 19, 2022
INTERVIEW - Joshua Senter - 'Still The Night Call'
Today I have an hour-long INTERVIEW episode for your listening pleasure.
Joshua Senter is a Golden Globe Winner and Emmy Award-nominated writer. Josh was raised in the Ozark Mountains of Missouri where he was homeschooled on a cattle farm. He moved to LA in 1997 to pursue filmmaking and he began writing for the hit Showtime series The L Word. Soon after, he joined the international phenomenon, Desperate Housewives. In addition to many more high-profile screen credits he is also an adjunct professor of TV Writing for the School of Cinematic Arts at USC. His sophomore novel Still The Night Call was released in 2022 and was named Kirkus Reviews “Best Indie Book.”
'Still the Night Call' on Amazon/Kindle
Sunday, May 15, 2022
My Birthday Gift To Myself
Well, happily I turned 64. And Paco is over his Covid-19. And I still remain negative. Yay me! LOL. In this episode I wanted to begin to introduce to you my awesome gift to myself, although it was ordered in January 2021 ! 15 months of waiting are over. I hope you enjoy this pause between the more serious episodes.
Tuesday, May 3, 2022
INTERVIEW - Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert - Part 3 - Conclusion
Today I have Part 3, which is the conclusion of the series, with Susan Bratton, the intimacy expert. And boy, today’s show is chocked full of so many helpful suggestions that we as gay men, can really utilize.
We take a deep dive into Erectile Dysfunction and Dick Pumps and Susan gives her opinions on such useful topics as Acoustic Wave Therapy, Testosterone Replacement Therapy, the Gains Wave, the Phoenix, and much more. And of course she does it with her charismatic, fun filled energy.
Monday, April 25, 2022
INTERVIEW - Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert - Part 2
This episode is Part 2 of the 3-Part Series with Susan Bratton, the Intimacy Expert. In this episode we take a deep dive into open relationships and other intimacy issues.
Monday, April 18, 2022
INTERVIEW - Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert - Part 1
I have quite the treat for you today. I bring you an interview with my first female guest ever, and guys, she is such a joy to have on. She is knowledgeable about so many of the issues I have addressed on this show over the years, but not only does she know her stuff, she is also funny, entertaining and sexy as all hell. I adore her.
Today is part 1 of a 3-part series with the amazing Susan Bratton, an Intimacy Expert. During this series we will talk about many types of relationships, the male sexual experience, penis enlargement and health, tips on having a successful dating life and so much more.
Whether you enter Susan’s world through a sexual health problem you need to solve, intimacy skills you want to learn, or bedroom communication techniques to ignite your connection and pleasure, she offers a world of good to apply to your love life.
Monday, April 11, 2022
INTERVIEW - David Pevsner - Damn Shame - Part 3
In this concluding episode of the 3-part series, actor, author and musical creator David Pevsner discusses his time as a Mature Escort and tells us about his OnlyFans and how he uses it as an expression of his erotic images.
Damn Shame on Amazon and Kindle
David Pevsner on Twitter (erotic)
Thursday, March 31, 2022
INTERVIEW - David Pevsner - Damn Shame - Part 2
Part 2 of the 3-part series with Actor, Musical Creator, Composer and Author, David Pevsner.
Monday, March 21, 2022
INTERVIEW - David Pevsner - Damn Shame - Part 1
Today we start a new 3-part series with actor/author David Pevsner. Over the course of these 3 shows, David discusses his book 'Damn Shame', and talks in depth and quite honestly, about his amazing life. If you are in our age range (60's) this first episode will be a re-visit to your childhood. As the series goes along, David gets very candid about his struggles and successes in theater and his unique ways of making money during tough times. This is a fascinating series of episodes.
Friday, March 18, 2022
STORYTIME - Laura
The true story of the oddest, most bizarre person I have ever known in my life.
Wednesday, February 16, 2022
Unlovable
A very important episode, that is dear to my heart. Valentine's Day has just passed, and so many LGBTQ+ people dread that holiday. This is a musing on those who search for love.
Friday, February 11, 2022
My Own Lord of the Flies
In this episode I tell you a STORYTIME about an adventure that I had with some High School friends that ended up boosting my self-esteem and confidence. Sometimes a bit scary, sometimes a bit funny, this is one of my favorite memories from my High School years. I hope you enjoy it.
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Thursday, January 27, 2022
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 8 - Conclusion
This episode concludes the Gay Military Life series by Sgt. Ron. I want to thank Ron so very much for sharing his fascinating life with us, both in this series, as well as his Gay Prison Guard stories.
If you have not had a chance to hear the Gay Prison Guard series, I invite you to listen to Ron's tales of the many years he worked in a penitentiary as a Prison Officer. The series is available in my back catalogue.
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Monday, November 29, 2021
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 7
Sgt. Ron's tales about his time in the military and living as a closeted gay man continue, picking up where Part 6 left off. If you have not had a chance the hear Part 6, please do so first, as this episode picks up from mid-story.
The Gay Military Series concludes with Part 8 coming in just a couple of weeks.
Friday, October 22, 2021
MRI-okay?
Another common hospital test is detailed in my story of my procedure earlier this week. I know many people who have claustrophobia and fear of tight spaces might be hesitant to get this test, so as in my Colonoscopy episodes, I want to dispel some of the anxiety about MRIs.
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Wednesday, October 6, 2021
Wednesday, September 29, 2021
INTERVIEW - Artie O'Daly - Bad Boy series - Part 2
In the conclusion of this two-part series, Artie talks about some of his tv show appearances on General Hospital, Modern Family, Pushing Daisies and more, and we continue our discussion about his Bad Boy YouTube series. This is a fun and funny episode and I know you will enjoy it.
Podcast Awards: The 2021 People's Choice Podcast Awards will be telecast on Thursday, September 30th, International Podcast Day. The show will be on YouTube at 9:00 pm East Coast time and 6:00 pm West Coast time. An Older Gay Guy Show is nominated in the LGBTQ category. If you are available, please give it a watch. We need as many viewers as possible. The LGBTQ category will probably be 20-30 minutes into the show. Wish me luck ! My huge gratitude to all who voted for me this year.
Link to Podcast Awards: https://www.podcastawards.com/
Artie O'Daly and Co. (Bad Boy series) https://www.youtube.com/c/ArtieODalyCo
Saturday, September 18, 2021
INTERVIEW - Anthony Hand - Maxxie La Wow - Drag Super-Shero
Continuing Sweeps Period, today I have a fun-filled episode about a subculture of the gay community that I have not discussed on the show before: Drag performers. And in this special episode my guest takes the discussion to new heights, by introducing his creation; Maxxie La Wow, the World's first Drag Super-Shero.
This is a funny and educational episode about a topic that I freely admit to know nothing about.
The following are the links to the IndieGoGo Fundraising Page, the Adventure Reel that will give you a first look at Maxxie La Wow and also Anthony's social media.
The Indiegogo link:
- Direct link: https://igg.me/at/maxxie
- My shortcut: www.maxxie.com/donate
The Adventure Reel:
- Direct link: https://youtu.be/sR3fjJgtFsQ
- My shortcut: www.maxxie.com/adventure
Social Media:
- Web Site: www.maxxie.com
- Instagram: www.instagram.com/maxxielawow
- Facebook: www.facebook.com/maxxielawow
Saturday, September 11, 2021
Gay Health 6 - Major Health Issues In The LGBTQ+ Community
A brief overview of the primary diseases that we face as the LGBTQ+ community. Citing 3 highly regarded organizations, some basic warnings and suggestions are mentioned in this shorter episode.
Tuesday, August 31, 2021
STORYTIME - I See Dead People - Part 3
In this full episode, I am continuing the I See Dead People series. In today's show, I tell 4 bizarre and humorous stories about my time as a Licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer:
The Potomac River Crash
The Prisoner
The Blizzard
The Mausoleum
In addition, I answer some common questions about the Funeral Business and I put to rest a couple of long-believed Old Wives Tales.
I hope you enjoy these stories. A Part 4 will conclude this series with the most horror I encountered as a Funeral Worker, coming in November.
Tuesday, August 24, 2021
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 6
https://youtu.be/AaL8KyU-q0w
Saturday, August 21, 2021
Your Personal Trainer - Part 2
In Part 2 of the ongoing 'Your Personal Trainer' series, I review your 'homework' from Part 1 and then we talk intensely about one food we need to eliminate, one food group we need to expand, and the beginning of exercise via a YouTube channel that is excellent (with a HOT AF host).
The following link is to BarbarianBody's 5-minute home abdominal workout: (it may be clickable or you may have to copy and paste)
https://youtu.be/kCbQz-XNcVE
Saturday, August 14, 2021
INTERVIEW - Artie O'Daly - Bad Boy series - Part 1
Sweeps Period has begun! In this first episode, I have an awesome interview with a very busy Hollywood actor/writer/producer/director/editor. His name is Artie O'Daly and there is a good chance he has guest appeared on a tv show that you have seen. In this first of a two-part interview, Artie and I talk about his connection to Gilmore Girls (one of my all-time favorite shows) and he tells stories of his appearance on that show and how it came about that one of the Gilmore Girls stars appeared on Artie's hit TV series 'Bad Boy' (currently on YouTube). He is a fascinating guy and I know you will enjoy this two-part interview.
Next up in Sweeps Period will be the second part of my 'Your Personal Trainer' series. We will talk more about food and also some basic exercises to get started with at home. Following that, will be another series of episodes with Sgt. Ron where he tells us more stories of his days as a gay man in the military.
Sweeps Period is going to have some great shows. Subscribe so you don't miss an episode when it comes out. Thanks guys ! ~Joey
Friday, July 23, 2021
Colonoscopy Fun
I thought I'd give you a story of how my day went for my 2nd colonoscopy, the first I've had since 2009.
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Please join me this Saturday, July 24th at 11:00 am - 12 noon (Eastern U.S. time) for the launch of the Joey After Dark Podcast that will be part of the INTERACTIVE Pride48 LIVE Streaming Weekend. You can enjoy a couple of true-life erotic stories, some Vintage TV Trivia, and more.
Go to Pride48.com and click on the Listen Live Player. Also, please join the chat room so we can converse during the show. Thanks everyone!
Friday, July 9, 2021
Update and STORYTIME - A Castle In The Woods
In today's episode, I am going to update you on several things.
The New Joey After Dark Podcast and Joey After Dark YouTube Channel
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/joey-after-dark-podcast/id1573409882
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCW1EcoCf1DCOBb_-ArJMzAg
Also, my Eye Health, my Tongue Cancer check-up, the Pride48 Network LIVE Streaming Weekend and The Podcast Awards. Then in STORYTIME, I tell you a fun story about a real castle in my hometown.
Sunday, June 13, 2021
Embracing Change
Friday, May 21, 2021
INTERVIEW - Jonathan Shuffield - Almost...Not Quite: Together Apart
I am joined by LGBTQ+ Actor, Writer, Producer, Director Jonathan Shuffield, creator of the web series Almost....Not Quite: Together Apart. Originally a planned filmed sitcom-style show, in their freshman year, Jonathan and his talented troupe of actors have adapted their show for the modern pandemic. Covid-19's big connection software has allowed the production to use Zoom as their set, and the result is a fun testament of the unforgettable year of 2020. Please enjoy the interview.
Saturday, May 8, 2021
Life-Enhancing Habits - Conclusion
This episode is the final installment of my 'Life-Enhancing Habits' series. This episode covers the remaining 7 suggestions to help you live a longer and more vibrant life.
Don't miss my BIG announcement coming in a short message episode on Tuesday, June 1st !
Saturday, May 1, 2021
Stepping Back Into A World Full Of Cooties
Remember when we were kids and we would play a game of giving Cooties to our playmates ? That is what I fear is looming outside my home. And I need to get over it.
Saturday, April 24, 2021
How Do We Hold The Senior Gay Community Together ?
As we slowly start putting society back together as we all get vaccinated for Covid-19, the Senior Gay Community is something we all need to think about and work at sustaining. Many older gay men have been isolated during these past 13 months and are now rightfully feeling hesitant about re-joining social situations where crowds might soon be gathering. How will our older LGBTQ brothers and sisters still get together for much needed friendships and reunions, and what will be the lasting community be like?
Friday, April 16, 2021
Things To Do And Say To Make Yourself Old
We all are getting older, and maybe we are becoming our parents in our thoughts and habits. Are we as Gay Seniors just tired of the world of younger people? Are we starting to say the very things our parents would say that we swore we would never become? Are we starting to border on being that grouchy, bitter old man?
Sunday, April 11, 2021
Your Personal Trainer - Part 1
Today I am starting a new series that I'm calling Your Personal Trainer. I often hear from guys that have basic workout and nutrition questions. I know hiring a Personal Trainer can be an expensive proposition, especially with the fees that will probably have to be charged by Trainers to compensate for all the lost work and income due to the Covid-19 Pandemic.
So, with that in mind, I thought running this series can be beneficial to those that wish they could have a Personal Trainer to give them basic information and to do what Trainers do best; Motivate and Encourage you, as you go along. Obviously without having the option to work with you in person, it will limit how some of this training will have to be. But, I have faith that the information and me kicking your ass a bit will help you at least get started eating healthier and getting you to move! I will give you some basic at home exercises to do down the road a bit, and there will also be more advanced exercises that will have to be done in a gym, for those of you desiring these programs.
So, no matter your experience, from absolute beginners (my favorite guys!) to the more advanced training, there will be something for everyone. I truly hope you enjoy these episodes and that you will participate so we all can get these Pandemic Pounds off so we can enjoy a beautiful, active Summer. My best to all of you! ~Joey
Saturday, March 27, 2021
INTERVIEW - Matt Mercurio - Part 2 - 1970's-2000's Gay Clubbing and Music
Monday, March 22, 2021
Life Enhancing Habits - Part 1
This is part 1 of a 2-part series on 10 Habits that can help give you a heathy life as you age. In this first part, I give an overview, some necessary disclaimers and talk in depth about the first 3 Habits. The remaining 7 will be discussed in the final installment of this series, coming in a couple of weeks.
The main content of this episode is from a draft that I had back from the first year of this show. It was never used. Due to it being done 6 years ago, the audio is not the best as I was working with my first microphone and studio set-up. I currently use my 3rd set-up for recording new episodes so there are big differences.
Thank you for listening !
Friday, March 12, 2021
INTERVIEW - Gian Carlo Durland - Ripples of Water
In this Interview episode, I am joined by Actor/Writer/Producer Gian Carlo Durland, Independent Filmmaker. Gian Carlo currently has two film projects of interest to the older LGBTQ+ community. Please enjoy this lively discussion about his excellent film Ripples of Water, the difficulties of being over 40 in the gay community and Clutter Luck, his YouTube episodic 'Roadshow' parody.
Friday, March 5, 2021
INTERVIEW - Matt Mercurio - A Client Of Joey's From 25 Years Ago Speaks Out - Part 1
This is Part 1 of a fun conversation that I had with Matt Mercurio, an ex-client and best friend of mine from 25 years ago. Matt was one of the first clients that I had when I moved my training business into Boston gay gyms.
Saturday, February 27, 2021
Energy Builds Energy
This is an episode about Procrastination and Lack of Motivation. Often these things can be directly tied to lack of physical or mental energy to take on the task. How can we stay energetic? Well, Energy Builds Energy.
Friday, February 19, 2021
Mistakes Are NOT Mistakes
Sometimes when we get older, especially if we are single and alone, we ruminate on past embarrassing situations or errors that we have made. I wanted to explain my philosophy on how I look at past problems. I talk about how I grew up with a dying mother and how that shaped my life over all these years. I hope this might be some use to you.
Friday, February 12, 2021
Valentine's Day SUCKS!
This year's annual Valentine's Episode provides a quartet of stories of Valentine's Days past. Travel around the globe and hear of good and bad celebrations.
Saturday, December 26, 2020
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Conclusion
In the conclusion of our 5-Part Series on Sgt. Ron's Gay Military Life Stories, he concludes with some intriguing tales of how far the U.S. Military used to go to 'weed out' any suspected (gasp!) HOMOSEXUALS ! He also tells us stories about Turkish Baths (saunas) and his encounters with other foreign soldiers.
Wednesday, December 9, 2020
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 4
In Part 4 of our 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues his amazing story-telling and discusses his time in Turkey. This is a funny and fascinating tale, giving us insight into what it was like as a gay man in the Military in the 1980's and 1990's.
Friday, November 6, 2020
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 3
In Part 3 of a 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues to tell us his tales of gay life in the United States Air Force. In this episode, Sgt. Ron tells us of his life during his assignments in The Netherlands and Turkey.
Monday, November 2, 2020
INTERVIEW - Ste7en Foster - 'The Last Alias'
LGBTQ author Ste7en (yes, the 7 is on purpose) joins me to discuss his brand-new memoir The Last Alias, a book discussing his very successful career as an Anime director, writer and producer. We talk about his cult-hit Ghost Stories and how that influenced his life. The Last Alias also dives into his previous 'straight' life and his discovery of multiple aspects of his personality that allowed Ste7en to live as his authentic self.
Thursday, October 29, 2020
The Aches and Pains of Aging
This is a somewhat humorous look at the aging process and ways that we can mitigate the craziness that we go through.
Saturday, September 19, 2020
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 2
In part 2 of this five-part series, Sgt. Ron tells us about his first experiences in gay life, and the interesting men that he met in his early days as a gay man.
Wednesday, September 9, 2020
Our Elusive Search for Happiness
For today's episode, I have re-edited some recording that I did 4 years ago about how to focus your own search for Happiness. I hope you enjoy it.
Tuesday, September 1, 2020
Senior Life Curse: Loneliness
One of the dangers of getting old is the possibility of losing friends and family and isolating yourself in desperation to try to avoid pain. This can deprive you of some wonderful years of your life. Others find the endless search for a life partner to be depressing and debilitating. It seems that no matter what you do, you find yourself alone. And being alone for any length of time, no matter who you are, will eventually lead to loneliness. Loneliness can be crippling.
Sunday, August 23, 2020
5 Rules to Get a Second Date
Friday, August 14, 2020
I See Dead People - Part 2 - How to Embalm a Body
In Part 2 of my 'I See Dead People' series, I thought it would be a good idea to tell you about what exactly happens when a body is embalmed. As we age, we will encounter the need to make arrangements for funerals, as well as visit them as a friend or relative. Should it fall on you to make the funeral arrangements, do you know what a loved one would really like for their final disposition? If you have no guidance by written wishes, you will need to make decisions that are difficult within a set amount of time to get all the arrangements in place. Embalm or Cremation? What does each really mean?
Saturday, August 1, 2020
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 1
Thursday, July 30, 2020
INTERVIEW - Randy Slovacek - Broadway Dancer, Singer, Actor - Part 1
Sunday, July 19, 2020
Nichols' Story
Saturday, July 11, 2020
Senior Life Ahead
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Thursday, June 25, 2020
Let's Write A Novel - Part 2
Saturday, May 30, 2020
INTERVIEW with Randy Slovacek of The Randy Report
The Randy Report was recently named one of the Top 13 LGBTQ+ Blogs You Need To Follow by PRNewswire and it has been recognized as a Top 50 LGBT Blog by Feedspot.com
In this enjoyable conversation, Randy tells us about how The Randy Report came to be, and the many aspects that keep the Blog and Podcast at the forefront of LGBTQ news.
Thursday, May 21, 2020
Let's Write A Novel - Part 1
Sunday, March 22, 2020
Creativity During The Zombie Apocalypse
Wednesday, March 4, 2020
Is Cheating The Price We Have To Pay To Have A Relationship?
Thursday, February 20, 2020
INTERVIEW - LGBTQ Blogger from theOUTfront
Thursday, February 13, 2020
INTERVIEW - Jason T. Gaffney - Filmmaker 'Analysis Paralysis'
Jason is an award-winning writer, actor, producer and director and you don't want to miss this awesome conversation we had about filmmaking.
Jason's films in release include:
In post-production:
In pre-production:
Web Series:
Additionally, he is the author of the 'California Comedy' series of LGBTQ romance novellas:
Jason can be reached at:
Analysis Paralysis is currently available through:
Sunday, December 29, 2019
An Insider's Look Into The Large Weight Loss Companies
Thursday, December 12, 2019
Dating During the Holidays
Thursday, November 28, 2019
Surviving and Thriving the Holidays
Thursday, October 31, 2019
Officer Ron - Gay Prison Guard - Part 3
Monday, September 2, 2019
INTERVIEW - Officer Ron, Gay Prison Guard - Part 2
Thursday, August 29, 2019
I See Dead People - Part 1
Saturday, August 10, 2019
INTERVIEW - Officer Ron, Gay Prison Guard - Part 1
Thursday, July 18, 2019
Can't I Just Be Happy, Is That So Much To Ask ?!
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in the People's Choice, the Society-Culture and the LGBTQ podcast
categories. Thank You ! ** - July 31st is the deadline !
Wednesday, June 19, 2019
Gay Health 4 - Night Owls and Insomnia
** Please don't miss my LIVE Show this Saturday, June 22, 2019. There will be fun Vintage and Current TV Trivia where you can answer in a real-time Chat Room and the Main Topic will be 'Masturbation", Choking the Chicken, Beating Off, Spanking the Monkey, Fapping. We will discuss why you should masturbate and interesting listener stories of their masturbation. It will be loads of fun. (you can masturbate during the show LOL). Please join me LIVE from 3:00 pm- 4:00 pm Eastern US time. (12:00-1:00 pm West Coast). Tomorrow June 20, 2019 I will have a short (5 minutes or so) podcast telling you how to come to Pride48.com and join the FUN !!! See you then !!!!! **
Thursday, April 25, 2019
Gay Aging 2 - Toenails and Fingernails
If you were a fan of the 1990's British TV Show 'Ab/Fab' (Absolutely Fabulous), don't miss my pathetic impression of Edina!