Gay-to-Gay Bullying

A theme I have done before, but it deserves more attention. With many believing there exists a fracture in the Gay Community due to lack of physical socializing because so many bars and clubs have closed, it becomes more important that we watch out for each other. That includes the prevailing gay-to-gay bullying that has only increased with the advent of the internet. Let's pause for a few minutes to understand how this type of behavior is more prominent when we are with our friends and within our own  cliques. Can we stop behaviors that prey on weaker people within the community when we might think we are being funny and clever?

STORYTIME - Bewitched - The Salem Saga

This is from the very first episode of An Older Gay Guy Show. I tell the story of my solo trip as an 11-year old to Salem, Massachusetts to visit what I had seen on Bewitched.

My Favorite Episode - STORYTIME - 'The Personification of Chin-Chin'

Starting out my 2022 Sweeps Period, this is a re-edited episode that is my absolute favorite from An Older Gay Guy Show. This took place in the early 1980's while I was working as a Funeral Director & Embalmer on Cape Cod. It is the most memorable and unique experience that I ever had in the Funeral industry. It is a story that I shall never forget, and I hope you get a laugh and that it touches your heart, as it did mine. 

Thank you to all my wonderful listeners for once again making me a Finalist in this year's People Choice Podcast Awards ! Hugs to all of you. ~Joey

STORYTIME - The Itchy Drive-In

 This is a STORYTIME episode about an experience that I had in High School. I hope you find this story funny, as it is yet another example of the fact I don't always make wise decisions. 

Thank you to all that sent me messages about my Covid-19 and the loss of my beautiful cat, Pooh. I will respond to all. Please be patient.

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INTERVIEW - Joshua Senter - 'Still The Night Call'

Today I have an hour-long INTERVIEW episode for your listening pleasure. 

Joshua Senter is a Golden Globe Winner and Emmy Award-nominated writer. Josh was raised in the Ozark Mountains of Missouri where he was homeschooled on a cattle farm. He moved to LA in 1997 to pursue filmmaking and he began writing for the hit Showtime series The L Word.  Soon after, he joined the international phenomenon, Desperate Housewives. In addition to many more high-profile screen credits he is also an adjunct professor of TV Writing for the School of Cinematic Arts at USC. His sophomore novel Still The Night Call was released in 2022 and was named Kirkus Reviews “Best Indie Book.”

Josh's Instagram

Joshua Senter Website

'Still the Night Call' on Amazon/Kindle

INTERVIEW - Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert - Part 3 - Conclusion

 Today I have Part 3, which is the conclusion of the series, with Susan Bratton, the intimacy expert. And boy, today’s show is chocked full of so many helpful suggestions that we as gay men, can really utilize.

We take a deep dive into Erectile Dysfunction and Dick Pumps and Susan gives her opinions on such useful topics as Acoustic Wave Therapy, Testosterone Replacement Therapy, the Gains Wave, the Phoenix, and much more. And of course she does it with her charismatic, fun filled energy. 

Susan Bratton on Instagram

Better Lover

Relationship Magic

The Sexual Soulmate Pact

The Whopper Dick Pump

Pumping Guide

INTERVIEW - Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert - Part 2

This episode is Part 2 of the 3-Part Series with Susan Bratton, the Intimacy Expert. In this episode we take a deep dive into open relationships and other intimacy issues. 

Relationship Magic

The Sexual Soulmate Pact

Better Lover

Susan Bratton on Instagram

INTERVIEW - Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert - Part 1

I have quite the treat for you today. I bring you an interview with my first female guest ever, and guys, she is such a joy to have on. She is knowledgeable about so many of the issues I have addressed on this show over the years, but not only does she know her stuff, she is also funny, entertaining and sexy as all hell. I adore her. 

Today is part 1 of a 3-part series with the amazing Susan Bratton, an Intimacy Expert. During this series we will talk about many types of relationships, the male sexual experience, penis enlargement and health, tips on having a successful dating life and so much more. 

Whether you enter Susan’s world through a sexual health problem you need to solve, intimacy skills you want to learn, or bedroom communication techniques to ignite your connection and pleasure, she offers a world of good to apply to your love life.

Relationship Magic

The Sexual Soulmate Pact

Better Lover

Susan Bratton on Instagram

 

INTERVIEW - David Pevsner - Damn Shame - Part 3

In this concluding episode of the 3-part series, actor, author and musical creator David Pevsner discusses his time as a Mature Escort and tells us about his OnlyFans and how he uses it as an expression of his erotic images. 

David Pevsner Website

Damn Shame on Amazon and Kindle

David Pevsner on OnlyFans

David Pevsner on Twitter

David Pevsner on Twitter (erotic)

David Pevsner on Instagram

INTERVIEW - David Pevsner - Damn Shame - Part 2

Part 2 of the 3-part series with Actor, Musical Creator, Composer and Author,  David Pevsner. 

Damn Shame on Amazon & Kindle

David Pevsner Website

INTERVIEW - David Pevsner - Damn Shame - Part 1

Today we start a new 3-part series with actor/author David Pevsner. Over the course of these 3 shows, David discusses his book 'Damn Shame', and talks in depth and quite honestly, about his amazing life. If you are in our age range (60's) this first episode will be a re-visit to your childhood. As the series goes along, David gets very candid about his struggles and successes in theater and his unique ways of making money during tough times. This is a fascinating series of episodes. 

'Damn Shame' on Amazon & Kindle

David Pevsner Website

STORYTIME - Laura

 The true story of the oddest, most bizarre person I have ever known in my life. 

My Own Lord of the Flies

 In this episode I tell you a STORYTIME about an adventure that I had with some High School friends that ended up boosting my self-esteem and confidence. Sometimes a bit scary, sometimes a bit funny, this is one of my favorite memories from my High School years. I hope you enjoy it.

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INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 8 - Conclusion

 This episode concludes the Gay Military Life series by Sgt. Ron.  I want to thank Ron so very much for sharing his fascinating life with us, both in this series, as well as his Gay Prison Guard stories.  

If you have not had a chance to hear the Gay Prison Guard series, I invite you to listen to Ron's tales of the many years he worked in a penitentiary as a Prison Officer.  The series is available in my back catalogue. 

'D. Pumps' on Joey After Dark as mentioned in the commerical.

INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 7

Sgt. Ron's tales about his time in the military and living as a closeted gay man continue, picking up where Part 6 left off. If you have not had a chance the hear Part 6, please do so first, as this episode picks up from mid-story.

The Gay Military Series concludes with Part 8 coming in just a couple of weeks.

 

MRI-okay?

Another common hospital test is detailed in my story of my procedure earlier this week.  I know many people who have claustrophobia and fear of tight spaces might be hesitant to get this test, so as in my Colonoscopy episodes, I want to dispel some of the anxiety about MRIs. 

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INTERVIEW - Artie O'Daly - Bad Boy series - Part 2

In the conclusion of this two-part series, Artie talks about some of his tv show appearances on General Hospital, Modern Family, Pushing Daisies and more, and we continue our discussion about his Bad Boy YouTube series. This is a fun and funny episode and I know you will enjoy it.

Podcast Awards: The 2021 People's Choice Podcast Awards will be telecast on Thursday, September 30th, International Podcast Day. The show will be on YouTube at 9:00 pm East Coast time and 6:00 pm West Coast time. An Older Gay Guy Show is nominated in the LGBTQ category. If you are available, please give it a watch. We need as many viewers as possible. The LGBTQ category will probably be 20-30 minutes into the show.  Wish me luck ! My huge gratitude to all who voted for me this year. 

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INTERVIEW - Anthony Hand - Maxxie La Wow - Drag Super-Shero

Continuing Sweeps Period, today I have a fun-filled episode about a subculture of the gay community that I have not discussed on the show before: Drag performers. And in this special episode my guest takes the discussion to new heights, by introducing his creation; Maxxie La Wow, the World's first Drag Super-Shero.

This is a funny and educational episode about a topic that I freely admit to know nothing about. 

The following are the links to the IndieGoGo Fundraising Page, the Adventure Reel that will give you a first look at Maxxie La Wow and also Anthony's social media. 

The Indiegogo link:

• Direct link:  https://igg.me/at/maxxie
• My shortcut:  www.maxxie.com/donate

The Adventure Reel:

• Direct link:  https://youtu.be/sR3fjJgtFsQ
• My shortcut:  www.maxxie.com/adventure

Social Media:

• Web Site: www.maxxie.com
• Instagram:  www.instagram.com/maxxielawow
• Facebook:  www.facebook.com/maxxielawow

 

Gay Health 6 - Major Health Issues In The LGBTQ+ Community

A brief overview of the primary diseases that we face as the LGBTQ+ community. Citing 3 highly regarded organizations, some basic warnings and suggestions are mentioned in this shorter episode.

STORYTIME - I See Dead People - Part 3

In this full episode, I am continuing the I See Dead People series. In today's show, I tell 4 bizarre and humorous stories about my time as a Licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer:

The Potomac River Crash

The Prisoner

The Blizzard

The Mausoleum 

In addition, I answer some common questions about the Funeral Business and I put to rest a couple of long-believed Old Wives Tales. 

I hope you enjoy these stories. A Part 4 will conclude this series with the most horror I encountered as a Funeral Worker, coming in November. 

INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 6

Sweeps continues with another episode with Sgt. Ron, who tells us some tales from his time at Eglin Air Force Base. This is Part 6 of the series and will continue with Part 7 coming in September. Enjoy his storytelling. 

Link to 'Mystery Box of Sex Toys' from the Joey After Dark YouTube channel.  

https://youtu.be/AaL8KyU-q0w

 

Your Personal Trainer - Part 2

In Part 2 of the ongoing 'Your Personal Trainer' series, I review your 'homework' from Part 1 and then we talk intensely about one food we need to eliminate, one food group we need to expand, and the beginning of exercise via a YouTube channel that is excellent (with a HOT AF host).

The following link is to BarbarianBody's 5-minute home abdominal workout: (it may be clickable or you may have to copy and paste)

https://youtu.be/kCbQz-XNcVE

INTERVIEW - Artie O'Daly - Bad Boy series - Part 1

Sweeps Period has begun! In this first episode, I have an awesome interview with a very busy Hollywood actor/writer/producer/director/editor. His name is Artie O'Daly and there is a good chance he has guest appeared on a tv show that you have seen. In this first of a two-part interview, Artie and I talk about his connection to Gilmore Girls (one of my all-time favorite shows) and he tells stories of his appearance on that show and how it came about that one of the Gilmore Girls stars appeared on Artie's hit TV series 'Bad Boy' (currently on YouTube). He is a fascinating guy and I know you will enjoy this two-part interview.

Next up in Sweeps Period will be the second part of my 'Your Personal Trainer' series. We will talk more about food and also some basic exercises to get started with at home. Following that, will be another series of episodes with Sgt. Ron where he tells us more stories of his days as a gay man in the military.

Sweeps Period is going to have some great shows. Subscribe so you don't miss an episode when it comes out. Thanks guys !  ~Joey

Colonoscopy Fun

 I thought I'd give you a story of how my day went for my 2nd colonoscopy, the first I've had since 2009.

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Please join me this Saturday, July 24th at 11:00 am - 12 noon (Eastern U.S. time) for the launch of the Joey After Dark Podcast that will be part of the INTERACTIVE Pride48 LIVE Streaming Weekend. You can enjoy a couple of true-life erotic stories, some Vintage TV Trivia, and more. 

Go to Pride48.com and click on the Listen Live Player. Also, please join the chat room so we can converse during the show. Thanks everyone!

Embracing Change

After a short-hiatus, I return with an episode about making some much needed changes.

Life-Enhancing Habits - Conclusion

This episode is the final installment of my 'Life-Enhancing Habits' series. This episode covers the remaining 7 suggestions to help you live a longer and more vibrant life. 

Don't miss my BIG announcement coming in a short message episode on Tuesday, June 1st !

How Do We Hold The Senior Gay Community Together ?

As we slowly start putting society back together as we all get vaccinated for Covid-19, the Senior Gay Community is something we all need to think about and work at sustaining.  Many older gay men have been isolated during these past 13 months and are now rightfully feeling hesitant about re-joining social situations where crowds might soon be gathering. How will our older LGBTQ brothers and sisters still get together for much needed friendships and reunions, and what will be the lasting community be like?

Things To Do And Say To Make Yourself Old

We all are getting older, and maybe we are becoming our parents in our thoughts and habits. Are we as Gay Seniors just tired of the world of younger people? Are we starting to say the very things our parents would say that we swore we would never become? Are we starting to border on being that grouchy, bitter old man?

Your Personal Trainer - Part 1

Today I am starting a new series that I'm calling Your Personal Trainer.  I often hear from guys that have basic workout and nutrition questions. I know hiring a Personal Trainer can be an expensive proposition, especially with the fees that will probably have to be charged by Trainers to compensate for all the lost work and income due to the Covid-19 Pandemic. 

So, with that in mind, I thought running this series can be beneficial to those that wish they could have a Personal Trainer to give them basic information and to do what Trainers do best; Motivate and Encourage you, as you go along. Obviously without having the option to work with you in person, it will limit how some of this training will have to be. But, I have faith that the information and me kicking your ass a bit will help you at least get started eating healthier and getting you to move! I will give you some basic at home exercises to do down the road a bit, and there will also be more advanced exercises that will have to be done in a gym, for those of you desiring these programs.

So, no matter your experience, from absolute beginners (my favorite guys!) to the more advanced training, there will be something for everyone. I truly hope you enjoy these episodes and that you will participate so we all can get these Pandemic Pounds off so we can enjoy a beautiful, active Summer. My best to all of you!  ~Joey

INTERVIEW - Matt Mercurio - Part 2 - 1970's-2000's Gay Clubbing and Music

My former client Matt Mercurio returns for the conclusion of his 2-Part Series. In this episode we talk a lot about the music of the 1970's-2000's and our love of gay club dancing. Some of the topics we discuss are: K-Tel Compilation Records, Napster, Casey Kasem's American Top 40 Countdown, Vinyl, Cassettes, CD's, MP3s, Taping Songs Off the Radio, Matt's Famous Chart Keeping since 1983, Apple Music, Flag Waving on the Dance Floor and much more!

Life Enhancing Habits - Part 1

This is part 1 of a 2-part series on 10 Habits that can help give you a heathy life as you age. In this first part, I give an overview, some necessary disclaimers and talk in depth about the first 3 Habits. The remaining 7 will be discussed in the final installment of this series, coming in a couple of weeks.

The main content of this episode is from a draft that I had back from the first year of this show. It was never used. Due to it being done 6 years ago, the audio is not the best as I was working with my first microphone and studio set-up. I currently use my 3rd set-up for recording new episodes so there are big differences.      

Thank you for listening !

INTERVIEW - Gian Carlo Durland - Ripples of Water

In this Interview episode, I am joined by Actor/Writer/Producer Gian Carlo Durland, Independent Filmmaker. Gian Carlo currently has two film projects of interest to the older LGBTQ+ community. Please enjoy this lively discussion about his excellent film Ripples of Water, the difficulties of being over 40 in the gay community and Clutter Luck, his YouTube episodic 'Roadshow' parody.

Here are Gian Carlo's links:

https://ripplesofwater.com/

Ripples of Water is currently available on Amazon Prime Video, iTunes and Apple TV

Clutter Luck  YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKB4YzA2Vt1D_-5peGuJqbw

https://www.giancarlodurland.com/

INTERVIEW - Matt Mercurio - A Client Of Joey's From 25 Years Ago Speaks Out - Part 1

This is Part 1 of a fun conversation that I had with Matt Mercurio, an ex-client and best friend of mine from 25 years ago. Matt was one of the first clients that I had when I moved my training business into Boston gay gyms.

Matt discusses how we met and what it was like having me as his Personal Trainer. We are completely honest in this episode, and maybe I revealed more than I should have. But, I try to be as honest as possible with you guys, and this is an example of that !

Energy Builds Energy

This is an episode about Procrastination and Lack of Motivation. Often these things can be directly tied to lack of physical or mental energy to take on the task. How can we stay energetic? Well, Energy Builds Energy.

Mistakes Are NOT Mistakes

Sometimes when we get older, especially if we are single and alone, we ruminate on past embarrassing situations or errors that we have made. I wanted to explain my philosophy on how I look at past problems. I talk about how I grew up with a dying mother and how that shaped my life over all these years. I hope this might be some use to you. 

INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Conclusion

In the conclusion of our 5-Part Series on Sgt. Ron's Gay Military Life Stories, he concludes with some intriguing tales of how far the U.S. Military used to go to 'weed out' any suspected (gasp!) HOMOSEXUALS !  He also tells us stories about Turkish Baths (saunas) and his encounters with other foreign soldiers.

If you have not had a chance to hear them, be sure to check-out his 3-Part Gay Prison Guard Series in Season 4.

There are still 2 more episodes coming out in the next 6 days to finish up this Season 5.

INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 4

In Part 4 of our 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues his amazing story-telling and discusses his time in Turkey. This is a funny and fascinating tale, giving us insight into what it was like as a gay man in the Military in the 1980's and 1990's. 

INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 3

In Part 3 of a 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues to tell us his tales of gay life in the United States Air Force.  In this episode, Sgt. Ron tells us of his life during his assignments in The Netherlands and Turkey.

INTERVIEW - Ste7en Foster - 'The Last Alias'

LGBTQ author Ste7en (yes, the 7 is on purpose) joins me to discuss his brand-new memoir The Last Alias, a book discussing his very successful career as an Anime director, writer and producer. We talk about his cult-hit Ghost Stories and how that influenced his life. The Last Alias also dives into his previous 'straight' life and his discovery of multiple aspects of his personality that allowed Ste7en to live as his authentic self.

The Aches and Pains of Aging

This is a somewhat humorous look at the aging process and ways that we can mitigate the craziness that we go through.

INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 2

 In part 2 of this five-part series, Sgt. Ron tells us about his first experiences in gay life, and the interesting men that he met in his early days as a gay man.

Our Elusive Search for Happiness

 For today's episode, I have re-edited some recording that I did 4 years ago about how to focus your own search for Happiness. I hope you enjoy it.

Senior Life Curse: Loneliness

One of the dangers of getting old is the possibility of losing friends and family and isolating yourself in desperation to try to avoid pain. This can deprive you of some wonderful years of your life. Others find the endless search for a life partner to be depressing and debilitating. It seems that no matter what you do, you find yourself alone. And being alone for any length of time, no matter who you are, will eventually lead to loneliness. Loneliness can be crippling.

In this episode, I offer a few suggestions that might help you get started in breaking free from that solitude.

5 Rules to Get a Second Date

So once you have secured that first date with someone, does it often not go as planned? Did you like the guy but then you didn't receive a call/text for a second date?  Did you do something wrong?

This episode talks about 5 important Rules that will help you make sure that he will want that second date with you !

I See Dead People - Part 2 - How to Embalm a Body

In Part 2 of my 'I See Dead People' series, I thought it would be a good idea to tell you about what exactly happens when a body is embalmed.  As we age, we will encounter the need to make arrangements for funerals, as well as visit them as a friend or relative.  Should it fall on you to make the funeral arrangements, do you know what a loved one would really like for their final disposition? If you have no guidance by written wishes, you will need to make decisions that are difficult within a set amount of time to get all the arrangements in place. Embalm or Cremation? What does each really mean?

I hope that this explanation will allow you to make a more informed decision. This episode is very graphic and deals with procedures done to the body.

INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 1

Continuing Sweeps Period, this episode is Part-One of a Five-Part Series from Sgt. Ron, who we previously heard on the popular Gay Prison Guard Series. Here Ron takes us back to his Military experiences and tells tales about his life in a very personal way.  Of course we are intrigued and curious about gay life as an airman, and over the course of this Series, his stories will give the answers.

INTERVIEW - Randy Slovacek - Broadway Dancer, Singer, Actor - Part 1

Sweeps Period 2020 starts off with a humorous and heart-felt conversation with Randy Slovacek about his extensive Broadway and Touring Company performance experience. We last visited with Randy when we discussed his popular LGBTQ Podcast and Blog, both titled The Randy Report. Now Randy tells us in a two-part series about how he got his start in Musical Theater and all about his many big-name musicals performed with some big-name Stars !

If you enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, please take a few minutes and vote for this show at PodcastAwards.com . Simply click on 'Click Me To Nominate My Favorite Podcasts', then register (I think you can make up a fictitious email, not sure), and then that will take you to the Podcast Page. Using the drop-down menus, vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in the People's Choice category and also the LGBTQ category. Then, please remember to SAVE your votes at the bottom of the page! Thank you to all who vote ! ~Joey

Nichols' Story

I've had a really tough few days. This is a tribute episode.

The show concludes with my rendition of On My Own from Les Miserables in memory of my Nichols.

Senior Life Ahead

Lessons Learned. Regrets. Happiness. Future Plans. All as I am now 62 years old, the Soft Senior age.

If you like An Older Gay Guy Show and want to show your support for the podcast, please go to PodcastAwards.com and vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in the LGBTQ Category and the People's Choice Category. Then VERY IMPORTANT, Save Your Votes at the bottom of the page. The deadline is approaching, so please, consider voting for this show. THANK YOU !

Let's Write A Novel - Part 2

In this second episode I remind you of what you should have done between these two episodes, and then move on to development of Minor Characters and Filler between your Milestones. We then talk about the voicing and appearance of your Characters and how to join all the scenes together so that you have a good continuous story and a world that you have created.

I also talk about my general writing style and how it might help you.

Thank you for joining me on this adventure!

INTERVIEW with Randy Slovacek of The Randy Report

This is an awesome INTERVIEW show with Randy Slovacek of The Randy Report Blog and Podcast.

The Randy Report was recently named one of the Top 13 LGBTQ+ Blogs You Need To Follow by PRNewswire and it has been recognized as a Top 50 LGBT Blog by Feedspot.com

In this enjoyable conversation, Randy tells us about how The Randy Report came to be, and the many aspects that keep the Blog and Podcast at the forefront of LGBTQ news.

Let's Write A Novel - Part 1

Have you ever dreamed of writing the Great American (or wherever) Novel? Have you ever read a book and was disappointed and said 'Hey I could have written that better'?

Well, here is your chance. Most of us are still locked up in our homes and have done just about everything to occupy our time. This is the PERFECT time to try out your writing skills.

This episode (and Part 2 coming in a couple weeks) discusses my own method for writing my gay sports novel 'Northridge High Football Camp' and it's sequel 'The Guys of Northridge'. I can't say how other authors have produced their work, but the method that I used I think is a very learnable technique. So why not give it a try?

In this Part 1, I talk about the genre of your book, about establishing your main characters and creating milestone scenes to bring your characters toward the conclusion of your story.

Is Cheating The Price We Have To Pay To Have A Relationship?

So many gay men have to deal with their boyfriend/partner/husband cheating on them. Sometimes it takes years to find out, and by then you might have gotten legally married, bought a house together, co-mingled bank accounts and/or adopted children together. When your lives are so entwined, the discovery of one of you cheating can be devastating to the other. Is monogamy realistic? Can you re-build trust after being lied to? Is a cheater always a cheater?

In this episode I tell you a story from my own experience with a cheating boyfriend. I also read to you an email from a guy who is at wits end on what to do with his husband who may be cheating on him. I also asked a question of an online Gay Over 40 group, if they had been cheated on, were there tell-tale signs. I read you their responses.

This is always a difficult subject and is the continuation of an ongoing discussion about gay relationships.

INTERVIEW - Jason T. Gaffney - Filmmaker 'Analysis Paralysis'

In this first Interview of Season 5, I talk to Hollywood LGBTQ Independent Filmmaker, Jason T. Gaffney. Jason talks about the current film that he has in release called 'Analysis Paralysis', a funny (and HOT) LGBTQ comedy. We talk about his mission, the process of making this film and the reception that it has had by the older gay community.

Jason is an award-winning writer, actor, producer and director and you don't want to miss this awesome conversation we had about filmmaking.

Jason's films in release include:

The Perfect Wedding

Russian Doll

Analysis Paralysis

In post-production:

Out of Body

In pre-production:

A Dekkoo Original Series:

Marriage of Inconvenience

Web Series:

Fame Dogs

Additionally, he is the author of the 'California Comedy' series of LGBTQ romance novellas:

Creating Clark

A Match for Mike

Fixing Frank

Jason can be reached at:

On Facebook: www.Facebook.com/JasonTGaffney

On Twitter: Twitter.com/JasonTGaffney

Web Site: www.JasonTGaffney.com

Analysis Paralysis is currently available through:

Dekkoo Web Channel (channel is available through Amazon Prime)-

iTunes-

Amazon-

GooglePlay

An Insider's Look Into The Large Weight Loss Companies

In this final episode of the decade, I tell you about my experience in working at one of the Large Weight Loss Companies for a year. I talk about what the food is like, what the strategies are for getting (and keeping) clients on their program, and what you can expect when you walk through the front door.

Additionally, I talk a bit more about my strategy for going out on New Year's Eve all alone, and I ask a Vintage TV Trivia Question about 'Designing Women'. Please join me !

Dating During the Holidays

Do the Holidays get you down? Is it because you haven't had much luck in finding a Boyfriend/Husband?

Well, the Holidays can be an awesome time for new connections (romantic and the other....).  I talk about this subject, as well as a funny story about my first meeting with my husband Paco.

Also, my own '11 Rules for Getting A Second Date' (or for impressing on the first one).

Officer Ron - Gay Prison Guard - Part 3

The conclusion of the 3-part interview series with Officer Ron, the Gay Prison Guard. In this episode, Officer Ron tells us a few tantalizing stories about the inmates, as well as how and why he chose to become a Corrections Officer.

My thanks to Officer Ron for his candid stories about his experiences. Officer Ron will be back in 2020 for another 3-part series about his long Military career that preceded Corrections.

INTERVIEW - Officer Ron, Gay Prison Guard - Part 2

Sweeps Period continues with Part Two of my fascinating interview with Officer Ron Odion, a 20 year veteran of the New Mexico State Penitentiary. Officer Ron is a proud gay man, and his unique perspective will be of interest to all in the LGBTQ Community.

In this second part, Officer Ron tells us about the sexual encounters he witnessed, how the inmates viewed homosexual acts, and the gang activity that was often sexually related.

I See Dead People - Part 1

Part One of a Two-Part Series on my experiences as a Funeral Director and Embalmer.  This is an insider's look into what happens when a person dies. One of the reasons I wanted to do this series is that I wanted to let you know what happens behind the scenes and ways that you could save money when you have to arrange a funeral.

This episode will be of interest to many of you, as we are all aging. Sometimes we have to do things we don't want to do, especially if we have elderly family members, or even yourself with pre-arrangements.

I wanted to make that easier for you and give you some tips that will give you information that will be useful under those circumstances. Plus, it's just fascinating stuff !

For those who get grossed out easily, embalming stuff will be in Part 2, so no worries about this episode.

INTERVIEW - Officer Ron, Gay Prison Guard - Part 1

Sweeps Period 2019 begins with a fascinating Interview Show with Officer Ron Odion, a retired, Gay Prison Guard who worked in a State Penitentiary in Santa Fe, New Mexico for 24 years.

In a 3-part episode arc, Officer Ron gives us a glimpse into the true-life workings of a prison: the guards, the prisoners and the many facets of activities that make up the Correctional System. Officer Ron tells us of his experiences in the Training Academy and how he was treated, and tells us stories of what is was like to be a gay man in this testosterone-fueled climate.

Don't miss this fascinating look at an institution that most of us (thankfully) will never see on our own.

Can't I Just Be Happy, Is That So Much To Ask ?!

We all want to be happy. Yet for many, happiness seems to be elusive. Should we change our locations? Change our jobs? Search out better partners? In this look at elusive happiness, maybe the road map has been left behind.

** If you like and enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, I
respectfully ask you to go to PodcastAwards.com and vote for this show
in the People's Choice, the Society-Culture and the LGBTQ podcast
categories. Thank You ! ** - July 31st is the deadline ! 

Gay Health 4 - Night Owls and Insomnia

Are you a Night Owl? Do you sleep unusual hours, tossing and turning? I discuss my own experience with being a 'Night Person', and how I am striving to correct that life-long habit.

** Please don't miss my LIVE Show this Saturday, June 22, 2019. There will be fun Vintage and Current TV Trivia where you can answer in a real-time Chat Room and the Main Topic will be 'Masturbation", Choking the Chicken, Beating Off, Spanking the Monkey, Fapping. We will discuss why you should masturbate and interesting listener stories of their masturbation. It will be loads of fun. (you can masturbate during the show LOL). Please join me LIVE from 3:00 pm- 4:00 pm Eastern US time. (12:00-1:00 pm West Coast). Tomorrow June 20, 2019 I will have a short (5 minutes or so) podcast telling you how to come to Pride48.com and join the FUN !!!  See you then !!!!! **

My Worst Date EVER !

I have a recorded version of my LIVE Valentine's Day Night Show, and I'm chopping it up to use for various upcoming episodes.

In this episode:

I tell you the story of my Worst Date EVER in 1981 on Valentine's Day itself.  This was when I was working as a Funeral Director and Embalmer, and that back-drop makes for a story that you won't soon forget!

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Vacationing Alone

Many of us older gay guys are single, and as we age, we might lose contact with friends through relocation, illness, death, arguments; a host of reasons. And that can lead to isolation and eventual depression. 

One of the ways that I have dealt with loneliness over the years, is that I learned how to travel by myself and enjoy the experiences many times more than if I had a traveling companion. Now traveling alone for some, is a very strange concept. Why would you want to be alone? Isn't the point of traveling to be able to enjoy the location, sights, dinners, memories etc. with someone else? Maybe. But what if you don't have a boyfriend/husband or friends that want to travel to some of the exotic places you always dreamed of going? Should you wait until you have a partner to travel with? (We aren't getting any younger!) Or, do we have to give up on ever going to those places?

I want to tell you about a few of my experiences with circling the globe alone and the self-sufficiency I learned along the way.

Regrets and Lessons

I found some news today that made me think about regrets and lessons in life, and I want to share some thoughts with you.

Please....don't miss my LIVE Interactive Show on Valentine's Day night, February 14, 2019. There will be LOTS of Vintage and Current TV Trivia, I will tell you an absolutely unforgettable story about a Valentine's Day date that I had, and there will be some time for questions and answers. An Older Gay Guy Show LIVE Interactive I HATE/LOVE VALENTINE'S DAY Show !!  There is info in the last few minutes of this episode. Please join me !!!!!

Being The Third Wheel

Don't you hate it when one of your closest friends, maybe even your BEST friend, gets into a relationship with a guy and suddenly you don't hear from him as often, or hang out with him as often? And then you find yourself being invited out with the new couple, and you become the dreaded '3rd wheel'. That sucks. Even worse, what if all your friends in your immediate social circle are in relationships and you are the only one left single? So when you go out, you are the.....11th wheel? 19th? How do you possibly navigate that?!?  Let's discuss !

Don't miss An Older Gay Guy Show LIVE Interactive Show, the 'I HATE/LOVE Valentine's Day Show' on Valentine's Day NIGHT, February 14, 2019 from 10:00 pm - 12 Midnight, Eastern Standard Time (7:00 - 9:00 pm West Coast, 12 noon - 2:00 pm on Friday in Australia)

More info on the LIVE Show will be coming next week.

Why Are Young Gay Guys Such Dickwads ?

The first episode of Season 4 comes via an email I received from a very nice gentleman in Australia. It has prompted a discussion on why young gay guys are so unkind and mean. As always, this is based on my opinions and my experience. I hope it can prompt some thoughts.

The Vintage TV Trivia Question of the week is a fun reflection on The Dick Van Dyke Show from the 1960's.

I am looking for guests for this season. If you feel you have a story to tell that relates to the older gay community, please contact me and let me know you'd like to come on. It is a pre-recorded interview that can be edited, so please have no fears about doing the show. It will be fun and relaxing. Contact me via: AnOlderGayGuyShow@gmail.com

INTERVIEW - The Latest in Cosmetic Work for Guys with Kris Venezia - Part Two

This year's Sweeps Period concludes with the 2nd Part of my conversation with Kris Venezia about what is new in the areas of cosmetic work available for guys.

This is not a suggestion or endorsement for you to run out and get cosmetic work, but for many older guys, especially those who have suffered from the effects of HIV and the powerful drugs that are taken to keep it at bay, this information is important. With some, it could even be life-saving, as the depression and isolation people often feel can take its toll on the psyche.

In this second half, we discuss Cool Sculpting, Gastric Bypass and Hair Pieces (and those in Hollywood that wear them!) So sit back and enjoy this insider's look at the world of cosmetic work.

** This Sunday, September 30, 2018, is International Podcast Day and will be the announcement of the Winners of the 13th Annual People's Choice Podcast Awards. I am Nominated for 2 Podcast Awards: The LGBTQ Podcast Award and the Mature Podcast Award. Please tune-in LIVE on Sunday at 8:00 pm Eastern Time (5:00 pm Pacific Time) for the Announcement of the Winners. Go to PodcastAwards.com to view the Awards LIVE. Thanks !!! **

Self-Doubt vs. Confidence - Impostor Syndrome

At the request of a listener from British Columbia, Canada regarding his self-doubt as he takes a new position running a sports team, we look at two self-esteem philosophies: The Peter Principle and Impostor Syndrome. Now while these theories can be viewed as a negative source of esteem, when coupled with a more applicable and positive method of coping with self-esteem that we talk about in the second half of today's episode, we can assess our self-doubt easier when looking at this subject from various points of view. The episode concludes with a basic tenant of success that we can all apply in times of indecision and uncertainty.

A Vintage TV Trivia Question is posed at the start of the show and the answer is given in the concluding minutes of the podcast.

Thanks so much for joining me today !

- Joey

Getting Outside Yourself

This serious episode is the second half of my series on Depression that started with the episode 'Depression: Emotional Eating'. Today I tell you about the serious danger that I was in due to depression after my parent's deaths. I discuss how my depression first surfaced, plans I had made to take my own life and treatment that I sought out to deal with my issues of grief.  But most importantly, I talk about revelations I had during this process that allowed me to view the world in a different way, that ultimately has brought me to the better place I am in these last 20 years or so.

This episode is my personal experiences and opinions. Do not view this as any kind of therapy or professional guidance. If you feel you are depressed or if you ever have suicidal thoughts, please seek out professional help. I have been able to overcome my grief and relationship issues only through professional therapy and prescribed medications. This show is only my personal opinions.

INTERVIEW - The Latest in Cosmetic Work for Guys with Kris Venezia - Part One

In today's Sweeps Period episode, I think everyone will find this fascinating. Kris Venezia (from 'The Almost Transition' episode) returns to discuss all the current treatments available for guys who wish to look their best as they age.

Even if you have no interest in having Cosmetic Work done, I think you will find it very interesting.

We talk about Kris' history of Cosmetic Work, we also discuss Fillers, Laser Hair and Spot Removal, Cool Sculpting, how to tell if you might need some Hairline Restoration, and we even touch upon Melania Trump and Ivanka Trump.

This is Part One of a Two Part episode due to the length of the interview. Part Two of this show will air in three weeks. I will do two other episodes first, for those not interested in this subject.

Enjoy!

- Joey

INTERVIEW - The Leather Community with Jay Menick

An Interview Show with Mr. Providence Eagle 2017, Jay Menick. Jay gives us insight into the Leather Community, it's clubs, contests and history.

If you have never been a participant in this side of the Gay Community, this episode will give you some surprises. Enjoy!

Tomorrow, Thursday August 9th, I will release a NEW Story Episode called 'Blond Shaggy-Haired Surfer Boy - My First Crush' in which I tell you all about my summers on a lake up North as a tribute to my father. And....I describe my crush's body in vivid detail from the memory of a voyeuristic prepubescent (that's me!), and I also tell you of some future plans that my Husband Paco and I have made.

Look for that episode to be on the air tomorrow at 6:00 pm EDT.

Thanks !!!!

- Joey

Coming Out Later In Life

An exploration of the issues and obstacles that gay men face when coming out when older.

A Vintage TV Trivia question is asked at the start of the show and the answer is given at the conclusion of the podcast.

Please vote for me in the Podcast Awards! (I really want to win!)

Listen back 5 episodes to the one called 'Podcast Awards, Please Help Me' for the details of how to vote. VOTING CLOSES ON TUESDAY, JULY 31st. So please don't wait !

Thank you so very much in advance for your considerations.

Relationship Honesty

This is kind of an addendum to several of previous episodes: Monogamy vs. Open Relationships / Gay Dating / Cruising / Bromance with an Ex / etc.

I'd like to hear your opinion on this episode. You can reach me at AnOlderGayGuyShow@gmail.com regarding this, or any subject.

Please vote for me for the 2018 PEOPLE'S CHOICE PODCAST AWARDS!

Go to PodcastAwards.com, go to 'Listener Nominations Now Open', fill out the short form, them go to the Nominations page. I am nominated in 3 categories: The Adam Curry People's Choice Award, The LGBTQ Award and the Mature Award.

Please vote for me in all 3 categories. You will find An Older Gay Guy Show in the drop-down menus.

And..... THANK YOU !

Monogamy vs. Open Relationships - Part 1

This is the 1st of 2 parts on a discussion about whether Monogamy is right for your relationship, or if you both prefer an Open Relationship.

A listener has shared his story with me and allowed me to share it with you. I also reference an article called, 'Open Relationships or Monogamy: How Gay Couples Can Decide What's Right For Them'.

If you have a life story to tell that you feel will be beneficial to this conversation, please feel free to send it to me at: AnOlderGayGuyShow@gmail.com

I would only use your first initial if I read the email in a broadcast.

Part 2 will be in a few weeks. Next week, there will be a different topic for the episode.

Can You Have A Bromance With An Ex ?

Can gay men have a friendship/bromance with an ex easier than a straight couple? Are you friends with any of your exes? I examine an article by author Jeremy Helligar as a prequel to the episode coming up titled 'Monogamy vs. Open Relationships'.

Don't miss the 'Golden Girls' Trivia Questions at the end of the podcast!

There is a new video on 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel that shows my first (and maybe last?) experience with Waxing My Nose Hair! The video also contains a workout segment and a talk about my frustrations of an aging body. (for Feet Lovers, the last segment has me barefoot with my feet closest to the camera!)

Nothing In The Dark

WARNING: If you are SENSITIVE regarding the topic of DEATH, or have had a particular trauma with the death of a loved one, PLEASE SKIP THIS EPISODE. Humor regarding death is within this show. But if you are curious about the Universe and are not bothered by discussing death in detail, please enjoy this trippy, intense, thought-provoking episode about the unknown. This is THE MOST BIZARRE episode I have ever done. Strap yourself down, get a glass of your favorite imbibement and go on this ethereal journey with me. It will be one that will make you laugh and send chills down your spine. Come on board!

Aging Angst

Two unbelievable things happened to me this week, and unfortunately, they ending up being related. Sit back and listen to a couple of stories that have taught me a most important lesson in life. Learn from my mistakes, please!

Why Can't I Find A Boyfriend??

Tired of endless dating and not finding the right one? Or, tired of not even getting any dates to see if they are the right one? I give you my part of my perspective on gay dating and finish with an important exercise that will give you insight into the potential reasons why you find it impossible to date a decent guy. I hope it gives you some things to think about!

What About Bob ?

I recently re-connected with my friend from high school, Bob. I reminisce about our teenage years and my 'seduction room'.

Gay Bears And Other Labels

A bit controversial, I discuss the various labels used in the gay community and consider whether some are welcome and good, or are all of them restrictive and insulting? Let's think about it. 

My Funny Phobia

I have the most embarrassing phobia that seems to attack me whenever the Universe is looking for a laugh. I hope you enjoy my story about my strange paranoia.

I end Season 2 with a silly, hopefully fun, kinda stupid tale of a conversation between friends.

Enjoy the remainder of your Summer, see you all in 3 weeks for the start of Season 3. PLEASE, SUBSCRIBE !!

Our Identity

Not sure if this was a good idea, but I purposely messed myself up a bit so I could have some fun. This won't be a regular thing, fear not. But I hope you get a laugh, or a nice memory from it. A more serious look at Our Identity will be on the YouTube Channel for this podcast. The Channel name is An Older Gay Guy Show.

♬Cause Breakin’ Up is Hard To Do ♬ - Part Two

My first 'buzzed' episode, as my husband Paco and I celebrated the first day of Summer out on our deck with some wine. LOL

In this episode, Part-Two of a Three-Part Series, I discuss an article about the most common relationship mistakes that gay guys make. These factors might be some of the reasons for break-ups that we have all experienced. I also request YOUR input for Part-Three of the Series that will be coming later in the Summer.

♬Cause Breakin’ Up is Hard To Do ♬ - Part One

Part One of a 3-part series about Gay Relationships and Break-Ups. In this first episode, I begin to tell you about my personal relationship experiences and then discuss an article called 'Gay and Can't Find a Partner?' that lists reasons why gay relationships might be doomed from the outset.

Part Two will conclude my personal story and will discuss an article called 'Top 7 Common Relationship Mistakes Gay Men Make'.

And in the newly planned Part Three, will be a discussion about listener's stories about break-ups and we will try to figure out how we move forward in our relationships in a healthy, satisfying way. (future episode- no date set)

INTERVIEW - The Almost Transition

An Interview Show featuring one of my closest friends who has had an extraordinary life. Kris shares interesting details of his early days as he prepared for his transition into a woman. He tells of surprising circumstances that led to a life-long quest for acceptance and to find his place in the LGBTQ community. It's a fascinating listen, and I hope you enjoy this first interview episode of An Older Gay Guy Show.

Gay Health 3- The Fear of Colonoscopies

A discussion about the importance of screening for colorectal cancer. If you are approaching age 50, it is imperative you have this important procedure. I had been petrified beyond belief about having a colonoscopy due to a previous test I had done more than 20 years ago. I discuss the early procedure as well as my personal experience with having a colonoscopy. I take you step-by-step through what happened, and I think if you have fear of this test (like so many do), please, please listen to this episode. It literally could save your life. Thank you!

Gay Health 2- Neuropathy

A discussion about Neuropathy, a common problem that develops with Diabetes, Advanced HIV, Lyme Disease, Shingles and many other ailments. While there is no cure, we look at current treatments for pain relief and management of the condition. Anyone over the age of 40 should listen to this episode, as it is becoming more prevalent due to excessive body weight in more and more adults.

Fear and Anxiety

As we age, it is not uncommon to have growing fear and anxiety about the future. In many cases, these emotions are not only related to health and finances but also to a sense of losing your connection to the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode, I tell you a bit more of my own history of fear and anxiety, and we look at an article that gives us '5 Ways to Overcome Fear and Anxiety'.

No One Alone

An important message about the Thanksgiving and Christmas Holidays, as well as all the religious celebrations around the world, inclusive of ALL religions. You are all important in this world.

The Funeral Surprise

Today I'm going to tell you one of the most unusual things that happened while I worked as a Funeral Director/Embalmer. I think you'll find this story entertaining and interesting. At the time, I couldn't believe it actually happened! Please join me for a unique mystery.

Self-Esteem As We Age

Have you ever felt that you are less attractive, less muscular than others? Have you felt that at your age all your chances at happiness have evaporated? I talk candidly about outward appearance and why sometimes the grass is actually greener on YOUR side of the fence.

Who Will Take Care Of Us ??

As we age, we all have concern about who will care for us when we are old. This is a discussion about some of the unknown details that might shock you, and I quote some articles that may offer some assistance in this very important factor as we move into our Senior years.

Expanding Horizons

Age is just a number, right? So maybe there are some dreams that we used to have when we were 'younger' that we kind of pushed back for someday in the future, or maybe we just gave up on those dreams altogether. But do we have to? We aren't dead (or at least in most cases, LOL), so......can we still make those dreams come true? I'm telling you about one of mine, how I'm going to do it, and I ask YOU to conjure up those forgotten dreams of your own. Maybe it isn't too late for any of us!

Pet Family

Us gays LOVE our pets! In this episode I tell you a
tale of what I consider to be the best thing I have done in my life. I
hope it inspires you, I hope it calls you to action, and I hope it
prompts you to give your pet family an extra hug tonight!

Gay Pride 1973

My history with Gay Pride Parades started with the 3rd Pride Parade that Boston ever had, back in 1973. This year is my return to those celebrations and I wanted to tell my story of why I haven't been to a Pride event in many years, and the strange introduction I had to gay life all those years ago.

How to Select a Gym

Have you ever wanted to join a Gym or Health Club but feel a bit intimidated, and since you are a beginner, you don't know what to even look for in a facility? Is it right for you? Will you feel out-of-place in that environment?

In this episode, I explain the inner workings of a health club and give you advice on what to ask, what to look for, and what to avoid. I go into great detail to explain what to expect. This is important information for both Men AND Women and I guide you through the process so that you will feel more confident and comfortable in your search for a gym that meets your specific needs and is right for YOU.

I Must Forgive

I share a story that I didn't think I would ever talk tell on a podcast. But having just had a birthday, I decided that I needed to tell this tale, and explain why I feel like a free man now.

This is not the typical episode of this show. But if you are a person who has struggled with the past, running a movie-like memory over and over again in your mind, this story might be of value to you.

This is a VERY personal account (all names have been changed) of a difficult time in my life, when as a teenager, my parents died. I talk about the one person in my life, that I might describe as someone that I 'Hated' for 43 years.

What Happened To Gay Bars??

Gay Bars are closing all over the country. Why? Is it the Internet? Drug use? Our older gay community is losing its structure. Let's discuss what Gay Bars and Gay Dance Clubs used to be, and what is happening now.

Gay Dating

Looking for a boyfriend but can't seem to get past a first date? Why doesn't it work out?  We look at some situations and suggestions on how to attract the right people.